Anyone have friends that you cant just tolerate?

wacky Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:36 PM

Anyone have friends that you cant just tolerate?

Just curious, am I the only

WithThisRing Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:38 PM

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i have a recent ex-friend who i want to kick some common sense in. I was fed up with her BS and ended the friendship

butterfly20 Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:39 PM

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no , i just stop talking to them

wacky Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:42 PM

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I have this feeling that I will be cleaning house soon.

This one particular person just always has to throw a dig at me and then always has me feeling like ****, and I usually dont get annoyed that much from other people. Its just the way she says it

BIOTCH

MNJSPLUS2 Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:47 PM

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I had one like that. I tolerated her for as long as I could but after being a BM for her I just ended the friendship b/c it was too one sided

MrsTC Posted: Aug 01, 2003 06:51 PM

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if it gets to that point, i end the relationship....no point in continuing with the negativity!!

wacky Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:08 PM

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I hear ya, think Im going to head in that direction.

Sick of listening to her mouth

WithThisRing Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:08 PM

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kick her in the shins

eternityawaits Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:10 PM

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I actually really don't have any friends anymore because of that... I was the first to have a job and go to college at the same time... then the first with a full time job, the first with a good salary, and now the first to get married.. they have just all disappeared over time.

But I can NOT stand FH's friends, they are just rude.

wacky Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:12 PM

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Chip

Eternity I hear ya, people are just rude and I cant figure out why.

Its actually pretty sad in the end. What ****es me off is that they never get it in the end

eternityawaits Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:15 PM

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We invited one of FH's friends to watch a PPV wrestling match one night, I go out to smoke a cigarette, and he goes with me, and he's all touching my arms and stuff and saying how nice I look with makeup on (they usually see me in jeans and sweats) and I got soooo skeeved out I almost punched the kid... uuuggghhh!

WithThisRing Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:28 PM

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talk about not getting it, i sent my friend an email telling her how she hurt me and it really upset me that she cant be happy for me and that she should consider our friendship over and her invite recinded

she read the email (i checked status of it)

and then a day later had the nerve to send me an electronic invite to her candle party

yabbobay Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:35 PM

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years ago...I finally told the girl (after she treated me like sh*t) that I didn't see her as one of my better friends...she was in shock...and said that she considered me her best friend!!!

I couldn't believe it...but I am in a better position since...you shouldn't put up with people's crap...

joeslauren Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:36 PM

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i had two dear friends of mine that i have known for years... but after getting married and having them in the BP (they are sisters) and learning and dealing with their cattiness.. we no longer speak. it was at the point that you are...where you just get so annoyed with them all the time by everything.. that i just came to realize - why try anymore? i gave up. its a shame, but i just an deal with one sided friendships anymore. they are so very alike - i swear they share a brain. after a while, u just get very tired of all the nonsense. at least i did

prncssrachel Posted: Aug 01, 2003 07:48 PM

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I recently cleaned house and I am so friggin happy because of it. I was sick of dealing with people who were so inconsiderate and rude and selfish. JT and I ditched many of our friends. I think the last straw was when one of my 'close friends' had a going away party for our other friend, WHO IS MARRYING US, and DID NOT EVEN INVITE JT OR I. ARGH! I can't even think about it. I get SO mad!

Maribelle7777 Posted: Aug 02, 2003 02:49 PM

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Edited to say: I thought the subject was anyone's fiance have friends.....oops

My FH has two friends I dont particularly like.
Mind you, they are both Irish born and raised, like FH, and moved here 2 yrs ago (one came over with FH). One of them is really cool when not drinking but since I've known FH, this friend has pretty much spiraled into something that is just not good. I think he gets drunk every night or nearly every night, and he's a NASTY MEAN drunk (he's insulted me while drunk) and found out last night he got beat up either inside or outside his local bar - probably for mouthing off to the wrong person. And I know others feel this way too that know him. Even other friends have commented on him. I don't really dislike him, it's just that he's never nice to me these days, so why should I be nice to him? I'm just happy that FH doens't hang out with him that much anymore. I think his friend is jealous (women dont even want anything to do with him these days, and I think he's so cute, that's how bad it's gotten). The other friend (is roomates with the one I just mentioned) and he's only known FH for a year. I think the guy's said hi to me twice in that span of time. FH says 'he's ignorant'. I think he hates Americans. I don't think he's jealous because FH and him don't know each other for that long for him to feel that way. He just never ever ever says hi to me and I'll be standing right next to him! Grr!!! But I heard a rumor that he just became a daddy, and the last time I saw him he did kinda acknowledge me, so maybe being a daddy is going to change him a bit. I don't really care at this point though.