anyone have siblings in your wedding party...

Aww I'm sorry you are going through this...maybe you should try sitting them down and talking with them about how you feel. Just approach them calmly and ask them if they still would like to be involved in things and go from there. Hopefully things will work out

I have both my siblings in my wedding party, but I can't help you because I'm very happy with them in it.

I do suggest talking to them - and if you feel like you can't.. maybe try talking to your mom? Tell her the whole truth and see what she says.

Family is really tricky sometimes.

Sorry to hear this.. My FH has a kinda similar situation. His brother is his best man but they aren't close anymore at all. They used to be, but his brother is very childish and selfish and practically makes fun of FH for being lucky enough to know what he wants to do in life, whereas his brother is almost 24 and still has no idea and has the idea that a fun night is getting messed up EVERY single night. Needless to say, they have grown apart very much because of their different lifestyles. FH didn't want to ask him to be his best man because they aren't close anymore and he can't stand his brother half the time... but he asked anyway because he felt that it would cause too many problems. We're 3 1/2 months away, and they still have so many problems so we'll see how these next few months are...

My advice to you is to not have them as your MOH's. If you aren't happy with them, you're gonna look back at this day 10, 20, 30 years from now and always remember the agony you felt over it. I mean I would definitely try talking to them at first and hopefully working it out... but if you cannot work it out, just remember that this is supposed to be the happiest day of your life... There shouldn't be any drama involved.

hey sweetie sorry u are going through so much i will tell them how i feel and if they dont like it fine take them out no one should feel the need to have someone in thier bp just bc they are related i might be doing the same soon too so i know how u are feeling call me if u need to