Lately, I just can't stay asleep, I wake up in a panic. I keep thinking of something I didn't do, or money, or something that will go wrong. FH thinks I am being crazy!!!
michey1217
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It is completely normal. I've had dreams that we forgot to get our marriage license and had a 'fake ceremony and reception' becuase we weren't truly married. Also had one about my hair and nail girl never showing and my nails and hair were done like 1 hour before the wedding. Just try to do a little each day and don't stress too much. I keep telling myself things will work out in the end and will be perfect. Good luck!!
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This just started happening to me. I have had some strange dreams. In one dream about the wedding my dress and all the BM's dresses were way too short, the limo's dropped everyone off to the wrong RH and we had to share our reception with another bride and groom. My favorite part of this dream was my sister and friend, who are both in the wedding decided that they had to leave the wedding because they needed cigerettes....this is hysterical because neither one smokes These dreams are getting crazy, I don't know if I can take 4 more months of this
Sept07Bride
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I can feel your pain! My wedding nightmares have begun. Nightmares about everything and anything, like that I had the wrong day written down, that none of the vendors showed up. When I told FH about them he asked me if he always showed up and when I said yes, he told me that's all I need to worry about. Can you tell he hasn't been much help during all of the planning?
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A few weeks ago- some of you may remember- I'd wake up regularly at 5am and couldn't get back to sleep. I started taking benadryl before bed and I think it's working. Though my one friend thinks it's not a good idea for me to be using it every night. I think if you take it for a few nights, get yourself back on a sleeping schedule, then you can wean yourself off of it....
I'm sorry! It really is the worst feeling!! You'll get past it! What really knocked me out of it was my bachelorette party! I had no sleep that night, so the next day I slept 10 hours!
Mmnnng
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OMG I am the same! No matter what time I go to bed, how much I drink (LOL), no matter what...I am up at 7 and on this site because I'm looking for things i forgot!
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I am not so much having trouble sleeping, just weird dreams. Last night I had a dream that I forgot to pick up my dress, I was at the place (which wasn't realy my RH but it was) and I went in the closet to put on my dress, and I realized I never picked it up. I hadn't even gone for any fittings...which is actually the same in real life.
E-n-K
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YES!!! I can't stay asleep! I wake up all night and am wide awake when I do!
jiji1118
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same problem hear....the docor gave me Ambien....i'm sleeping again!
Shorty McBride
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I don't sleep - I've been falling asleep around 3, 3:30, wake up at 6, force myself to go back to sleep, wake up groggy.
I never actually thought it was the wedding....but maybe...
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I usually can get in some good sleep on the weekends (8 or 9 hours) but lately if I just roll over I wake up even if its 7AM and once I'm up I'm thinking of things to do, I just can't get back to sleep!!! it's insane!! I really miss sleep!!
FlowerBride
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omg same here. i have to be SO dead tired to fall asleep these days. my mind is always racing with what still has to be done - especially on days/nights where i wasted time! last night i had a dream that my engagement ring crumbled into like 5 pieces! i think its normal but i also cant wait to sleep normal again!!
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I feel your pain - not only am I having nightmares and wacky dreams i am having the darndest time actually falling asleep - I think I laid awake til like 3:30 this morning! UGH!!!! Just keep telling myself to breathe!!!!!!!!!!! Nice to know I am not alone in my sleepless nites!!!!
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OMG- thanks sooooooooo much girls! I am always stressing over lack of sleep helps to know I am not alone
WHEN will this end?
FH seems to be SLEEPING FINE!! Damn him! lol
dancerandchef
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It's been happening to me too!!
~dancer~ charlotte
kacu2
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Yup...no sleep here...I'm a teacher so I'm off in the summer and don't have to worry about 'performing' during the day...fall asleep really late, and am up really early...keep thinking I'll nap during the afternoon, but not yet.. My fiance says the best night sleep I am going to get is our wedding night b/c I will finally relax...
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It is normal.... I didn't sleep well until our HM. The day before the wedding I slept for about 5 hours and was nervous as can be! The days before that, I slept maybe 5 hours each day. I hardly ate...my family kept nagging me to sleep and eat but I just didn't have any desire to do so!
drpepper318
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I know what you mean! I can't fall asleep at night sometimes because I'm so excited that the wedding is this week and I feel all this adrenaline in my system already! I'm sure I won't be able to sleep at all the night before! It's weird but I don't feel any stress though, actually I did a few months ago, but as I finished all the planning, the stress went away... I hope that happens to you!
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HA! Why do you think i am awake now! I have literally lay in bed for hours, till like 3 or 4 a.m. not being able to sleep...The only thing that helps me sleep is if I have a glass of wine an hour before I go to bed...but I try to avoid doing that seeing as how it would be a real shame if I turned into an alcholic right before my wedding!
AllJoy
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You should take Melatonin. Its a natural sleep aid found in the vitamin aisle. It works well.