Anyone in the mood for some pettiness

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

dont waste your time...Im almost in the same boat.
My DH and I are in a wedding next summer (we introduced my cousin to DH;s and my best friend). They hit it off and are now getting married
Back to topic...My husbands ex from about 8 or 10 years ago (i dont even know) will be there because our friend (the groom) is still really good friends with my DHs exes husband (Yes. husband).and hes in the bridal party as well...My DH keeps saying hes not gonna be comfy but I keep telling him to 'grow up and move on', 'you are married to ME now'..
He really hasnt talked about it much lately cuz Im always responding with the same answer..but im sure when the wedding gets closer, im gonna hear it again..and Yep, you guessed it..will have STILL have the same answer!!
This Christine girl needs to move on. Its not fair that you have to miss a friends special day cause of immaturity!

I am so happy this topic was brought up..speaking of morons, my FH has had the same AIM name forever and he got an AIM last week from his ex-wife's brother in-law who is getting a divorce from my FH's ex-wifes sister and wanted to talk about it. I told FH, hell no. Let the past, stay in the past. I have never met his ex and I hope I never will and I don't want him talking to this guy. There is no need to bring it up..end of story. If I were ever to meet to her at a mutual function, which would never happen but if, I am sure I would be cordial. I can't believe your friend is not inviting you to a wedding because of something that happened years ago.

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Posted by Dani00518

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

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I would write back:

Hi (Insert Idiot's Name):

I wanted to write back to you to explain why I am glad I am not invited to your wedding. I really thought I wanted to be there, but then you reminded me of the fact that you are as immature as I was afraid you were. I know you probably won't understand, considering you stupid you are, but I'm sure you will be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I have to do what will make me comfortable because I am more grown up than you are. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.

LMAO~!

Clueless!!!! I love it!!

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by Dani00518

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

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I would write back:

Hi (Insert Idiot's Name):

I wanted to write back to you to explain why I am glad I am not invited to your wedding. I really thought I wanted to be there, but then you reminded me of the fact that you are as immature as I was afraid you were. I know you probably won't understand, considering you stupid you are, but I'm sure you will be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I have to do what will make me comfortable because I am more grown up than you are. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.

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I agree!!! Don't worry about it. Remember A**h**es come out of the closet everyday!

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by Dani00518

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

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I would write back:

Hi (Insert Idiot's Name):

I wanted to write back to you to explain why I am glad I am not invited to your wedding. I really thought I wanted to be there, but then you reminded me of the fact that you are as immature as I was afraid you were. I know you probably won't understand, considering you stupid you are, but I'm sure you will be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I have to do what will make me comfortable because I am more grown up than you are. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.

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That is some funny sh#t
Cluelessbride...I love you...you are hysterical....could you imagine if I sent her that message...DH is gonna love this one! To be honest I'm really glad I'm not invited....saves me money....Actually I think I will take myself out on a shopping spree with the money she would have gotten as my gift

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Posted by Dani00518

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by Dani00518

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

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I would write back:

Hi (Insert Idiot's Name):

I wanted to write back to you to explain why I am glad I am not invited to your wedding. I really thought I wanted to be there, but then you reminded me of the fact that you are as immature as I was afraid you were. I know you probably won't understand, considering you stupid you are, but I'm sure you will be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I have to do what will make me comfortable because I am more grown up than you are. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.

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That is some funny sh#t
Cluelessbride...I love you...you are hysterical....could you imagine if I sent her that message...DH is gonna love this one! To be honest I'm really glad I'm not invited....saves me money....Actually I think I will take myself out on a shopping spree with the money she would have gotten as my gift

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Good God.... that is pretty pathetic. I just don't understand people sometimes. Why would someone even go there? Ridiculous.

Your DH is 100% correct.

I usually like to look at things from the 'other' perspective.. but the 'other' perspective here is so way off the mark of anything respectable that decorum prevents me from doing that.

In other words.. never start an argument with an idiot!

Your FH is right - it is better to just let this go, and at least now you know her true colors, and like you said, no need for that wedding present! Treat yourself to a spa day!

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by Dani00518

I just received this message last night......Christine is an EX-girlfriend of my DH whom he dated over 8 years ago (for 3 months)
Do you think someone may need to grow up and GET A LIFE!


Hi Danielle,
I wanted to write to you to explain why I did not invite you to my wedding. I really wanted to have you there, but then I was reminded of the fact that Christine is in my bridal party and it would make her uncomfortable having you and Neil there. I am so sorry. I am very upset that I cannot have you there. I know you probably won't understand, considering how long ago everything was, but she would still be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I had to do what would make her comfortable because she is a bridesmaid. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.



SO SHOULD I WRITE HER BACK...DH SAYS I SHOULDN'T WASTE MY TIME!

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I would write back:

Hi (Insert Idiot's Name):

I wanted to write back to you to explain why I am glad I am not invited to your wedding. I really thought I wanted to be there, but then you reminded me of the fact that you are as immature as I was afraid you were. I know you probably won't understand, considering you stupid you are, but I'm sure you will be upset by it. I felt I at least owed you an explanation. I felt that I have to do what will make me comfortable because I am more grown up than you are. Again, I am so sorry. I know that does not make it any better, but I am.

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ok....... i dont know what to say, but i asked my fiance,

and he said that you two should just go to the church anyways........just not the reception