Anyone inviting or did invite any ex's to the wedding?
Original post by emomma17
I didn't because i never remained friends with any, I was alwasy the one who ended it and it was for a reason so I never felt the need...may be harsh but it is how I feel. FH on the other is a different story. We invited one of his, but is also a close family friend of his that he grew up with, they were high school sweethearts I guess you could say and dated for 7 years...I have met her a bunch of times and she is a great girl. We invited her and her boyfriend to the party and I am starting to think is it going to be wierd? or will FH feel wierd about it?? Or am I just thinking way to much??!
lizzie217
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FH never had a serious GF other than me lol so no ex's...and I dont have any I am still friends with so no
Kerin2804
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nope, I have guests who will have exes there though - I sat them on opposite sides of the room.
Wifeynella
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We are inviting my ex, who is also my business partner. FH jokes about 'misplacing his invite' but he knows he is the only one I want! lol.
we did our pre-nupital investigation yesterday and both of us were shocked when we thought about that neither one of us have ever had a jealous moment with each other. We talked about it the whole way home. I was actually searching for a time I was jealous with FH and I couldn't find one!
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It is already done, forgot about it. You will barely notice she is there. It was a nice gesture. FH stayed friends with one of his ex's that he lived with for 3 years but lost contact with her a yr or two ago, otherwise I would have said to invite her. My ex-husband would never go nor would I want him there, it is ugly between us. I was married to him 15 years ago today, so I don't really have any other recent ex's nor does FH. My mom's ex is coming though although she has been re married to her husband, my stepdad, for 20 yrs almost and both will be there.
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I did invite the one and only ex that I eventually (many, many years later) became friends with. As of now, he is still trying to get the time off from work to come.
It took a long time but FH finally got over the fact that I have a past and that I still speak with one ex.
kimnsteve
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FH's exgirlfriends Mom is coming . Im not too happy about it because she barley says hello to me when she sees me ...but honestly it 's mine and his wedding she's coming too so I can get that upset!
Mici n KC
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We dont' talk to any of our exs so nope.
DCLM726
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Its been a long time. I wouldnt let it get to you.
I had an ex in my bridal party! Him and DH are good friends and we remained friends. His wife is awesome and we hang out with them alot.
chrispar
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Excellent question. I had an ex who I was with on and off for 8 years. I would have invited him to the wedding but DH really didn't want it so we decided not too. But I can understand the weirdness. I don't think he would have come to be honest and I was totally fine with not inviting him knowing DH wouldn't be comfortable. I am also a little strange because I have managed to remain in contact with almost all of my ex's or at least talk to them if I run into them.
azailia
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i actually wish, i could invite one... we are still friends...
but fh wouldnt like it and if the shoe was on the other foot i wouldnt like it either,,,
so i am not inviting him... he understands.. he will se pix
MeaganAndJoeC
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My bestman was my ex.... I was dating our BM in 10th grade when he introduced me to DH who was in best friend since 1st grade. When he intorduced me to DH we broke up and I started dating DH. Now we are married and been togther since then. So yes my bestman was an EX who i broke up with for DH
Jamnike
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yep! but we only dated for 2 weeks and have always been good friends. He accutally caught the garter and his GF caught the bok! it was HILLARIOUS!
