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Anyone live with their man before the wedding?

Original post by Soon2BeMrsS

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Ok we've live together for quite some time, I don't know if I can still wear white, has anyone lived w/ him befor e the wedding? did you wear white? Anyone know the ediquitte?

LaurenluvsTJ Thread views: 2,488

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Posted by Sweet_Face

You're getting married and you can wear whatever it is you want to wear, but I beg to differ with the women that said things to the effect that no one is pure anymore, etc. etc. Why? I am 24 years old, my fiance is 27 years old, we've been together for 5 years, we do not live together and have never had sex. Neither have we lived with and or had sex with anyone else!!!

I haven't officially begun gown shopping as yet, but from browsing online and looking through magazines, I am not in love with white gowns. So unless my view changes, this virgin will not be walking down the aisle in white.

I don't think they were saying that no one was 'pure' anymore, they were just saying that white was symbolic of virginity, and now many of the brides who wear white are not virgins, not that none of them are.

David'sbride Thread views: 2,488

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If 'Madonna' wore white... puh-LEEZE!

Oh FH and I live together but we joke to our families that I kicked him out into the spare bedroom.

I'm not a virgin at 34 but there were times in my life I was a 'born again' virgin

jens Thread views: 2,488

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We have dated 5 years (it will be 6.5 by our actual wedding day) and we've been living together for 3 years, and i'm wearing bright white!

Soon2BeMrsS Thread views: 2,488

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Ladies thanks so much know I know I can weaR WHITE and people won't think I shouldn't b/c we lived together

Soon2BMrsJoeF Thread views: 2,488

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I am wearing white and we have been living together for almost 2 years, and we already have a 1 year old son together who is our RB.

So yes you can, if that is what you want!

cjik Thread views: 2,488

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We've only been living together about a month, but I am wearing ivory (not a reflection of my status, the color looks better on me)!

I agree, this used to mean something, but it's pretty obsolete now.

jbjellybean76 Thread views: 2,488

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WEAR WHAT YOU WANT - IT'S YOUR DAY!
It's 2005!!

Beth1210 Thread views: 2,488

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Me too- we have been living together since November- we got engaged in August- I am wearing white- Nobody cares and I think they expect you to wear white!

Soon2BeMrsS Thread views: 2,488

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we'll be living together for almost 6 yrs, by the time we make it to the alter,

LaLa Thread views: 2,488

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Not living together until the wedding night
It was the only rule my parents had for me as I was growing up.

DAVALJO2 Thread views: 2,488

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I wish i could live with my FH. My parents would kill me. Even if i did i would still wear white. Its your wedding wear whatever u want.

Soon2BeMrsS Thread views: 2,488

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hahah soon enough, you'll be married in what 4 months!

SPITSBRIDE Thread views: 2,488

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There is nothing wrong with wearing white on your wedding day whether your not a virgin or living with your FI. White is traditional so I say go for it!