So, I'm really not into parties..at all lol. My family threw me an engagement party. I didn't want one, they knew that too, but would not take no for an answer. I'm not having a large bridal party only a MOH and possibly 1 bridesmaid who I didn't ask yet. My MOH is having a baby 4 months before my wedding so I really don't expect her with a newborn and all to throw a shower. Should I just tell everyone straight out don't throw me one.
Nichole2010
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i think if you are definitely dead set on not having one..then just tell people...
no registering = more cash as gifts $$$$$ LOL
kris_gets_hitched
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You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. Just make sure that the people who would be organizing it know that you're dead-set against it so there's no confusion.
WeddingDKMM
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I really don't want one either. We had an engagement party and I think that should cover it. I told my mom and my sister (MOH) so I think there will definitely be no surprises.
Michy2009
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I do not think I will be having a shower. I feel funny expecting people to buy me gifts for my 'new married life' when we have been living together for five years already.
I think FMIL may throw me something small, but if it was up to me...I dont really care.
futuremrsjc2010
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Im not having a shower either, I will be having my BP though lol :)
Im getting Married
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I am not having and E-party and really don't want a shower either. I feel like I just want people to come to our wedding to celebrate with us. That's it end of story.
If I were you I would also tell the people who would throw it you really don't want one
Diana508
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Posted by Michy2009
I do not think I will be having a shower. I feel funny expecting people to buy me gifts for my 'new married life' when we have been living together for five years already.
I think FMIL may throw me something small, but if it was up to me...I dont really care.
I've been torn about this too. I feel bad as well b/c we've been living together for two years as of now, going on 3 when we get married.
Everyone is telling me to do it, so if I do, I want it simple. I'd like it in someone's house and very small.
jcreilly
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I am having one but it will be very small 15-25 people and My BP does not have alot of $$ my MOH ( my sister) has 2 young kids and I dont want them spending a lot.
