I have been stressed for 2 weeks. My Jo just offerred me promotion, but I would have to move to Miami by April 1. The job has a lot of possiblities and I know it can lead to bigger and better things. The Problem is my Parental Units..... They don;t want me to leave until I get married. ( My Fiance lives in Miami) They are telling me that we have so much to do for the wedding and by me moving and taking the position, I will be losing out on all the fun and excitement!! I am so torn... So far, I am finding this wedding stuff really easy. We have so much done already.
PLEASE HELP
Robeymuse
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I am. You can do it! Especially if you have the major vendors done before you leave. FM me if you have any questions!!
lgluszak
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THanks, makes me feel better. I have amost everything done.. And My job will bring me back to NYC often...
nferrandi
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You should take the job. It sounds like you're on top of things and with your family's help, you'll be able to manage just fine. Your place is with your FH. You'll be married soon and what if another great job opportunity doesn't come your way?
IreneinChicago
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Me too, its totally doable. You'll probably have marathon weekends when you get back to NY to plan thing, but I wouldn't turn down a promotion just b/c of wedding plans.
Rob-luvs-me
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TAKE THE JOB!!!! I would try to get as much done as you can before you go - then plan trips to work out certain things - have your BM's and your family help with some of the smaller things.
You can definitely do it!
I moved out to Michigan in the end of September to joing my FH - I would do it again in a second - it is not impossible to get it done.