Anyone's family making all of this really, really, really difficult for you?

I cried more this year than I ever have... ever....

awwwww don't cry ... I am dealing with crap too but you know what its YOUR DAY and you have to do what YOU want.. Don't let anyone get to you know one will ever be happy... Be selfish its all about you and your FH so don't cry!!! Here are some hugs

OMG I am so glad you brought this up! I have had to deal with more crap from my mother since I got engaged than I ever have before!

Both me and my sister are engaged and are getting married 5 months apart from each other. My sister is getting married first and I originally had planned to get married in 2010, but when FH and I sat down and really figured out our finaces we realized that we could do it in 2008! Now though all I hear from my mother is how I ruined everything but moving my date up cause SHE can't afford to marry off two daughters! Neither me or my sister have asked her for a dime BTW. . .

I know she is going to have a hard time letting us go especiallly since she is very dependent on us but it's like at least once a week she makes me feel bad about getting married!

Don't worry you're not alone! We just have to look past it and know that soon we'll be starting families of our own!

It's too much to even go into detail about....

But I am so sad....

I'm sorry to hear that your family is not making this enjoyable for you.

yes, i totally know what you are saying. i went for my first fitting today and all i did was cry the whole time i had the dress on and i couldnt wait to get it off. there was nothing wrong with the dress at all, it was just then that i realised that i should have spoken up for myself when i said to my mother, that i didnt want a wedding. next, she then said we will do something small and next thing you know the guest list and the whole 'production' spiraled out of control. i am not doubting the marriage aspect, it is the wedding aspect that i loathe. it isnt me.

and i didnt realise it until tonite, when that dress was on. guess it is too late now. got elope?

Hey listen, cheer up! In ten days you will be starting a new chapter of your life! Don't let anyone ruin that for you cause they're not worth it!
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but no one has the right to make you cry, especially not now!

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Posted by KimAMalone

Dry your eye! It's supossed to be a happy time in your life. It's all about you!

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it hasn't...

everyone knows me here and knows I am really silly and funny all the time, but my family has made this so difficult for me... When I look back at being engaged, I think all I'm ever going to remember is the pain....

I pray for this wedding already.... I just want all this to be over....

Isn't that horrible???

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Posted by sr081906

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Just imagining you saying that with your French accent makes me feel better, Sophie!!!

I know EXACTLY what youre going through

Just keep in mind....it all ends after your married

Keep your eyes on the prize!!!!

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Posted by sr081906

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Just imagining you saying that with your French accent makes me feel better, Sophie!!!

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You are welcome sweetie!! Feel better and ignore them all!!!!

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Posted by sr081906

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Just imagining you saying that with your French accent makes me feel better, Sophie!!!

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You are welcome sweetie!! Feel better and ignore them all!!!!

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It's VERY hard to ignore your own parents...

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Posted by sr081906

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Just imagining you saying that with your French accent makes me feel better, Sophie!!!

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You are welcome sweetie!! Feel better and ignore them all!!!!

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It's VERY hard to ignore your own parents...

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I completely understand. I don't talk to my dad anymore neither my younger sister. I had to lean out of the drama over the years. I am so much better off!

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Posted by sr081906

I have to say I am very fortunate. I did not have any drama what so ever. Everybody has been very supportive. We are planning everything on our own.

After reading all the posts since I have joined this site, I have to admit that I do feel for all of you ladies that have to go through all this nonsense.

So.... To all the ladies that had to put up with bad FILS, parents, siblings, BM, MOH, etc..

My hugs to you...

It's not fair!!!

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Just imagining you saying that with your French accent makes me feel better, Sophie!!!

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You are welcome sweetie!! Feel better and ignore them all!!!!

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It's VERY hard to ignore your own parents...

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I completely understand. I don't talk to my dad anymore neither my younger sister. I had to lean out of the drama over the years. I am so much better off!

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lokos like you DID have drama - you just chose not to continue it......

Liza,

My father and one of my sisters made my wedding planning a nightmare. My father wasn't going to walk me down the aisle a few weeks before the wedding. The morning of the wedding my younger sister dropped out and then decided an hour before the ceremony that she was going to be in it. I totally understand!

What got me through was knowing that when all was said and done, I was going to be married to the man of my dreams. On my wedding day, I didn't let anything get to me because I knew that DH was waiting for me.

You will get through this!

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

It's VERY hard to ignore your own parents...

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I totally understand and feel your pain!