Anyone's FH's friends not like them?

Maybe you're trying TOO hard ? Is he the first of his friends to get married ? They may feel like you're stealing him.....
My FH's friends were always ok w/ me......but I have seen them seriously reject some of the other girls in the 4 years I've been around, usually it was just b/c she was trying way to hard ........

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Posted by jpavig

I don't think I'm trying too hard. I am just polite when we're all together, it's just hard because I'm so uncomfortable.

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Do you know why? Or does FH know? That must be a hard spot to be in.

Are there any other girls around that you could buddy up to ? It's always easier when you have at least one person in your corner. -
Maybe you just haven't spent enough time w/ them and they are uncomfortable w/ you the same way you are uncomfortable w/ them ??
What does FH say ?

I feel very lucky in that FHs friends have welcomed me so warmly into their 'group'. They are very genuine, good people and I couldnt be happier to hang around with them.

My friends are another story unfortunately. One girl, I have known forever. She is in my BP. Her husband and I had been friends as well, but somewhere along the line he decided that he did not like FH. Instead of talking to me about it or, at the very least keeping our frindship alive despite any choices he may disagree with, he has stopped talking to us. This hurts my feelings most because when he and my friend got married I tried as hard as I could to make every part of it special for them, and it hurts that he was not mature enough to talk to me about any problems he might hav ebeen having with me us. Anyway, its a sore subject and hurts me to this day...and its been almost a year. But any efforts I have madehave not been reciprocated. You can only do so much.
He is the only one of all of my friends that seems to have a problem so...who knows