appt with dj.. scattered thoughts on what i need

Does any one have a list of categories that requires songs. Such as the following..
1. garter toss/removal
2. boquet toss
3. procressional
bridal party ( can i use the same for the parents even though i have small party)
bride
4. recession
5. Does unity candle and blending of sands needs a song?


Am i missing anything. I am not sure what else i should tell the DJ

are you including ceremony or just reception?

reception:
father-daughter dance
mother-son dance
first dance
last song