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Are we crazy?!?

BRIDE62610 Posted:

Are we crazy?!?

So FH and I are thinking about moving to Northern Virginia.. My brother is basically able to set FH up with a job making a little more than he makes now, and the cost of living is much less? My ONLY ONLY worry is.... what if we have to move RIGHT before the wedding?!?

leeza81 Posted:

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eisssshhhhh....well maybe can you guys do the long distance thing for about a few months? You can maybe stay in NY to do most of the planning and he can work. My brother-in-law lived in Nashville for 8 months while he and my sis were engaged. Good luck

jenn_eric Posted:

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You'll make it work regardless of timing. Just think, some people plan destination weddings from thousands of miles away, so you can do it!

Good luck!
springsandra Posted:

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I'm going to FM you since we experienced a somewhat related situation.

Nina1010 Posted:

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I think that is a bit exciting a bit stressful. But I don't think its crazy. You're still keeping the wedding here? Northern VA isn't so far, definitely do able.

NYBride Posted:

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Definitely not crazy!! You can still work it ALL out. It might be a bit stressful but YOU CAN DO IT!

halfbaked Posted:

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I don't think it's crazy. If you want to live down there, this is a GREAT opportunity!

leesah85 Posted:

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If you want it to work, it will work! Northern VA is only 5 hours away (via Amtrak) so I'm sure you could even see each other every other weekend. FH and I only see each other 2 days per week for the last two years and we've made it work. If you love each other, you will make it work - and if it is going to work out better for your financially, then all the better!

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