ARE WE SUPPOSED TOO....

Julybride2be Posted: Jun 14, 2007 07:02 PM

ARE WE SUPPOSED TOO....

TIP THE OFFICIANT?...sorry if thats a silly question

bettybcafe Posted: Jun 14, 2007 07:03 PM

Re: ARE WE SUPPOSED TOO....

I found this...

Wedding etiquette says that an officiant is 'never tipped,' but judges break that rule, because, in their cases, tipping actually takes the place of a fee for service rendered and is the only payment the officiant receives. Clergy persons may be comfortable accepting a donation for their organization. Years ago it was considered improper to ask a set fee for officiant services rendered. Today, you may find mention of a 'suggested donation.' The average gratuity starts at $75, more if travel time is involved or if you feel so inclined. Most couples rarely feel comfortable giving less than a hundred dollars for the wedding officiant. It's appropriate for the donation to be given to the best man before the ceremony. Following the proceedings, it is appropriate for him to give the 'fee' to the officiant. A civil officiant (e.g., judge, Justice of the Peace, City Clerk, etc.) is not allowed to accept a tip or donation for a wedding ceremony performed during court /office hours. After hours, they may accept a 'donation' (gratuity) of up to $75. To make sure you are within the legal guidelines of your locale, check with your officiant for specifics.

twinkletoes807 Posted: Jun 14, 2007 07:04 PM

Re: ARE WE SUPPOSED TOO....

I don't think it is a silly question at all! All I know is, that we will NOT be tipping the Reverend since it is costing us over $1000 to get married at the Church!!