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gmo4462 Posted:

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covering your face walking down the isle?

I wasn't going to. My son (12yr old) will be walking me down to my dad (who is in a wheel chair and cant walk) that will be standing at the end of the isle. My son will prob pull my veil off if he tried to pull it back away from my face and my dad wouldnt be able to do it with one hand (paralized).

Plus the veil that matches my dress has all the lace around it (in my pics with the dress but not as long) and Doesnt look right doubled

Opinions?
njoseph8 Posted:

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I don't want to, idk the idea of it covering my face freaks me out a little lol i dont like anything near my face tho lol, yup im a weirdo!
gmo4462 Posted:

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LOL, I agree with you. I really dont want my face covered. Everyone is gonna be taking pics of you walking down and who wants netting covering you up...my mom keeps saying I should though

suzie411 Posted:

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i'm not wearing a blusher (the viel over my face). i was afraid the church would make me, but i asked last week and I'm good to go!!!

no blusher for me!!
chreesta Posted:

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I purchased a blusher. but didn't think about pics! Now you've got me thinking!

gmo4462 Posted:

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Posted by chreesta

I purchased a blusher. but didn't think about pics! Now you've got me thinking!



I'm sorry, thats just me. All my friends wore it.
futuremrso Posted:

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I'm wearing a blusher. Its one of the traditions thats important to me. I dont think you have to though. Do what makes you happy.

jettahot Posted:

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mine is birdcage so yes my face will be covered until he kisses the bride, i beleive that is also jewish tradition!

pjc92980 Posted:

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i will be wearing a blusher...its a tradition and i want to follow it

sujeire Posted:

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Not me. It's just not me..

FutureJOC Posted:

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No blusher for me. I thought about having it for my dad's sake - you know so he can do the whole lifting it over my head thing before he gives me away. But I don't like the idea of hiding my face. I want to be able to see everything clearly when I'm walking down the aisle.

foundmylove Posted:

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not over my face

MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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I'm not. My fmil was giving me a hard time and I said I'm paying a lot of money for make-up, I'm not covering my damn face. Hahaha

ETA- It is a nice tradition, just not for me
anszusterman Posted:

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It's one of the few traditions I am excited to do! I love the meaning behind it.

Jennielee15 Posted:

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Posted by anszusterman It's one of the few traditions I am excited to do! I love the meaning behind it.
What is the meaning behind it?
leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by futuremrso

I'm wearing a blusher. Its one of the traditions thats important to me. I dont think you have to though. Do what makes you happy.



i'm weraing a blusher too. but in the situation described by the OP, i understand why you wouldn't want to and that's totally fine!
thelienne Posted:

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Posted by Jennielee15


Posted by anszusterman

It's one of the few traditions I am excited to do! I love the meaning behind it.

What is the meaning behind it?




i know back home people who do it suppose to be a virgin , so i don't know if it has the same meaning for every country, i'm not wearing one , cz i lived with hubby for the past 6 years , we have two children , also we did the civil wedding back in 2006, so that's the reason why i'm not doing it.
VCanizalez Posted:

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I am!

It is extremely important for me....
Some ppl say YOU HAVE TO BE A VIRGIN TO WEAR IT.. but I dont think that... I have different beliefs towards the veil...

So i am wearing a Blusher & a Cathedral Veil...

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by Jennielee15


Posted by anszusterman

It's one of the few traditions I am excited to do! I love the meaning behind it.

What is the meaning behind it?



THE HISTORY AND TRADITION OF THE WEDDING VEIL
There are many stories of the origin of a bride's veil. Some say that the veil was introduced in ancient Rome. People of that era believed that evil spirits would be attracted to the bride, so they covered her face with a veil in order to conceal her features and confuse them. The definition of veil is to 'obscure, shroud, mask or cover, so perhaps that is how the bridal 'veil' got its name.

It's also said the in medieval times, the veil was used to protect her from 'the evil eye' and was a symbol of purity, chastity, and modesty.

Others say the the origin of the bridal veil was due to the circumstances of an arranged marriage. In days past, men bargained with an eligible young lady's father for their hand in marriage. AFTER the ceremony, the veil was lifted to reveal the brides features. This was to keep a groom from backing out of the deal if he didn't like what he saw.

Some say that the veil was used in days past as a symbol of a bride's submission and willingness to obey her husband.

Certain lengths of bridal veils got their names from how or where they were worn. At one time, Cathedral Veils were only worn in wedding that took place in cathedrals.

Well, times have changed the meaning of the tradition of wearing a bridal veil! Now, wearing a bridal veil:

signifies a special event - A Wedding!

signifies joy

highlights the bride's appearance and features

is the final crowning touch! Bridal Gowns are transformed with the addition of a veil.

The past history of wearing a bridal veil has given way to new traditions. Over the past 20 years, traditions surrounding the bridal veil have changed even more. Veils were worn more frequently over the face (a blusher). Now, you don't have to wear if over your face all all if you don't want to.

Brides of our day are making their own wedding veil history! Star Jones of the popular Television show 'The View' wore a 27' FOOT long Veil--the longest known veil in history. It's dubbed the 'Star Cathedral Veil'. Her veil was two feet longer than Princess Diana's Bridal Veil.

It also used to be that brides marrying for the second time were not supposed to wear a veil, especially a white veil. Nowadays, it's perfectly acceptable to wear a veil (even a white one) for a second marriage if you want to! (Don't let anyone try to tell you different. It's YOUR day! If you want to wear it, go ahead!)

The wearing of a bridal gown and veil is one of the big days in a woman's life--Choose what YOU feel comfortable in and enjoy your special day!

anszusterman Posted:

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Posted by Jennielee15


Posted by anszusterman

It's one of the few traditions I am excited to do! I love the meaning behind it.

What is the meaning behind it?



I misspoke...I like the 'unveiling' tradition- so in order to be unveiled, I have to be veiled to begin with!

That tradition is from the bible/torah when Jacob was supposed to marry Rachel, but got Leah instead because she was wearing a veil through the whole wedding. So now, the groom picks the veil up to confirm he is marrying the right girl.

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