FH and I prefer quiet nights at home chillin' but do go out with friends or have them come over....but we have our circle of friends and that's primarily it. We tend to see ourselves as loners....not easy making new friends and such.
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Lately, I have no desire to deal with anybody, I enjoy coming home seeing hubby, cooking dinner and going to bed
BMD'sPeanut
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I think it's the winter rut...It is for me at least.
BellaBella
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We are the same as you. We enjoy our company the most. I am his best friend and he is mine. We dp absolutely everything together. Wouldn't have it any other way...
RedHead
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I am a social butterfly. I love to talk!
DrmnBlnd
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I am definately a loner. I love my friends, but I am definately one to stay home and relax and spend time with FH.
FeliciaDA
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We are definitely more of a 'loner' couple than social butterflies.. we mostly hang out with my bro/SIL, his bro/SIL, or a few other friends we've known awhile.
We find that we hang out by ourselves more often now than ever , since most of our friends have newborns or toddlers!
On my own time, I'd have to say I'm a loner as well. My circle of friends have dwindled over the years, and with all the times I've been stabbed in the back, I find myself a little tentative when it comes to making new friends.
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I am the definition of a loner. I am the most anti social person there is. I love spending time BY MYSELF. My friends do not understand why I am like this. People in general find this hard to believe about me, because of how social I appear to be.
I am throwing something at my place this weekend, and I am sooo not looking forward to it.
Danielle&Scott
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I am more likely a loner. I would rather be at home on the computer, watching a movie or reading a book than going out to a club or a bar or something like that. I do like going out to dinner though, and spending time with my friends.
I would prefer a night at home with Danielle watching movies or just relaxing....
CherylBooch
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FH and I are TOTAL social butterflies! We always have plans- we're totally not the types to just sit home. We value every one of our friendships and we love to meet new people.
julz33
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Both! Sometimes we like to be alone but other times we are social butterflies! And I am a loner m,ost of the winter and very social during the summer.
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We're kinda the same but FW is much more social. I have a small group of friends. She has a bigger group of friends. I like quiet nights with her at home. I do love to party though.. But not as much as I used to.
heidla
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As a couple we are loners. As individuals I am a loner and he is a social butterfly. I work in a very social atmosphere and on my nights off I like to be away from people.
Latina511
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DH is a social butterfy and I am a loner.
Lunatrek
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We're both loners. always have been, until we found each other... now we're loners together!
Sasha96
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We're both kind of loners...we have our close friends and our family plus we love to hang out with each other (we're always together)! I've always been the kind to be fine when I'm alone (maybe b/c I'm an only chld). My group of close friends has dwindled in the past few years too. One friend can't understand how I could enjoy not being social and at bars/clubs all the time. I guess that's a big part of the reason why we hardly speak anymore.
wc0143
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Loner
ChristineC68
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I go both ways. For a while I am fine being with DH and then for a while I like socializing with other people.
We just got off the holiday circuit so to speak and this is the first weekend we didn't see other people in a while and it was really nice.
octobergirl
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Wow, I feel so much better knowing that we are not the only ones who like to stay in! I thought I was becoming an old lady---but going out with my single friends and staying out late just doesn't do it for me anymore, and my body can't handle it!
Xelindrya
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Although Im very outgoing and like to socialize..I think Im too lazy..so we are loners. We hardly ever go out.
We've been trying to go 'out' more with other people. hahaha 'Its time to see new people!'
I go to tons of conventions and take Jim with me. Mostly Im on my own with rooms full of strangers and I have no problems. Jim doesn't socialize too much just keeps to himself. Still that's at conventions. At home, we just don't 'do' a whole lot.
Honestly kinda glad I met some ladies on these boards or there'd be no photos of our civil ceremony, my wedding gown or half my stuff.
(yes me in my wedding gown photos will be posted by this weekend)
