Are you a talker when it comes to something that bothers you

cw0904 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:18 AM

Are you a talker when it comes to something that bothers you

Or do you hold it in?

Jordan Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:19 AM

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I'm a talker...I keep it to myself only long enough to gather my thoughts and feelings so that I can be rational, then I talk till I feel better.

Misty Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:21 AM

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I b itch b itch b itch until I get results.

pschica Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:21 AM

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i am a talker - fh used to hold on until he exploded...but that ddn't work all that well - so he realized its more important to talk about things...so we both are now!

mishandgerard Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:30 AM

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it depends. Most imes I talk about it until I feel I have come to terms with it. That coul dbe months.

xjulietx Posted: Jul 24, 2003 10:38 AM

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I talk, oh boy do I talk. Then I sulk and wallow in it, then talk. In have never been one to keep it in.

mlp924 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 11:02 AM

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I have to talk it out in order to get over it. Matt just lets it all fester until he explodes!

nrvbrd Posted: Jul 24, 2003 11:05 AM

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I used to hold it in- this went on for a long time, especially when it came to FH- that was not a good thing, because when I finally did release - it was not pretty.

Now I tell him things right away.

Betty Posted: Jul 24, 2003 11:36 AM

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OHHHHH NO I don't hold it in (although sometimes FH wishes I would:):) I talk and talk.....

cw0904 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 11:51 AM

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Its not healthy to hold it in. When I used to do it, I felt like a boiling pot then I would explode! Not good. Sometimes I slip and hold things in, but I let it all most of the time.

LizD Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:11 PM

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I hold it in. It is not good, I really have to change that behavior

DrmnBlnd Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:12 PM

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I am a talker also....I have to talk and get things out, and then I feel better.

kptoys Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:13 PM

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When I get really mad I get REALLY quite. At first I talk to people close to me (as long as they arent the one that made me mad) Then when I calm down I talk to the person that made me mad.

phyl Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:16 PM

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talktalktalk...and I wonder why hubby doesnt

februarybride Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:25 PM

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I definitely keep everything in....I need to start complaining more!

mv1003 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:48 PM

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I use to be a talker to everyone. Then, I learned, that some people aren't worth talking it out w/.
W/ FH- we talk, but it took me a long LONG time to learn the right approach to subjects..... when really all I want to do is strangle him sometimes