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Are you always 100% in your decisions?
Lisa715
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:23 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:23 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I feel like we have picked what's best for us and at the best price so far, but I can't help always worrying if it was the right choice. Am I the only one? Will this stop or do I have many more months to keep worrying if we made the best decisions??? I'm going to have so many grey hairs after all this planning is done...lol
kammy322
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:25 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:25 PM
Re: Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I think second guessing is natural - I second guess every decision - did we pick too fast? should i have done more research? did we get the best price? BUT - if i keep thinking like that this planning process is going to lose any fun it might be. You clearly picked whatever it is for a reason and just stick with your gut :) I'll try to take the same advice!
rcotter90
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:29 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:29 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
We've been pretty confident in our decisions so far.. I keep up with all our vendors on their websites and Facebook so I'm constantly seeing their work and it reassures me that we couldn't have made a better decision :)
Rorelai
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:37 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 04:37 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I don't regret our venue choice but I DO keep thinking 'oh, that was so much better at our other choice' or 'oh the pictures would have been better at our other choice' so I guess I wasn't as 100% about it as I thought! lol. I'm also having a really hard time deciding on a photographer because I love them all and I'm 100% on ALL of them!
CAlbanese
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:11 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:11 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I did hours of research for each venue and vendor lol. But I second guess myself as well nothings perfect but all I can do is go with the flow at this point.
haw4
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:26 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:26 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I'm pretty happy with all wedding decisions we make. I think I'm not sure of is the color of my BMs dresses. Wish I had picked a different shade, but it's hard to know when you only see samples and pictures. I would say there are some things looking back on now I wish I thought about and did differently, but I'm pretty happy. I'm past the point of doubting and at the point of lets get this party started because I'm tired of making decisions lol
TeresaMarie
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:38 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 07:38 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I'm pretty happy with all of our decisions so far. I did a lot of research and got a lot of recommendations from friends/families, so most of our vendors we went in knowing a lot about them. This helped a lot because we didn't have to shop around to many places. Kinda made planning pretty easy so far.
Kimberley2015
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 08:44 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 08:44 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
Very pleased with all of our vendor choices. Definitely am second guessing the little details of the wedding I have been purchasing but once received I know we made the right decisions :)
ldequatro
Posted: Oct 07, 2014 08:58 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2014 08:58 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
My vendor choices I'm thrilled with.. it's the little things that I changed, or re-ordered a different kid, like my table numbers and small things like that!
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Oct 08, 2014 12:28 AM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2014 12:28 AM
Re: Are you always 100% in your decisions?
Second guessing is natural and when it's happened to me, I took a step back and remembered WHY we chose them in the first place and all was fine.
ndc923
Posted: Oct 08, 2014 11:08 AM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2014 11:08 AM
Re: Are you always 100% in your decisions?
If you're anything like me it will probably be like this until the wedding lol. I LOVE the vendors we booked but always have in the back of my mind what if they don't size up to what we're spending for them...flowers has been the biggest thing for me because I don't care for flowers at all, but I can't bring myself to book the 'cheapest' because I've seen the difference in the quality of work. We just have to tell ourselves we chose them for a reason, right?
brirose18
Posted: Oct 08, 2014 12:09 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2014 12:09 PM
Are you always 100% in your decisions?
I am such an indecisive person lol. I go back and forth ask for opinions and almost always pick the opposite of what was reccommend (it drives my fiancé crazy lol!). But I really have pretty set ideas for the wedding so I just need to find the right vendors. I think the next hardest for me is going to be the photographer. It's one of the most important aspects of the wedding to me so I know making the decision on who to use will be daunting lol.Welcome New Vendors
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