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Are you helping to plan your......

bridal shower or will it be a surprise

I think my won't be a surprise b/c most of Fh's family is in Florida... so I am sure i will know when I see them here.

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i think im going to know about it... I dont really like surprises either though to be honest!

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i told my MOH and my BP that I do not want a shower- they can take that money and put it towads their ticket!

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Well....we kind of do showers out here differently. Instead of one big shower....girls usually have a couple. But its a couple of very small intimate ones that you have and are not a surprise. So those no....My FMIL will probably throw a small one for me in NY for the friends and family out there that will not be able to come to NM...so...whether that is a surprise or not..I don't know..

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def. surprise!!!

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i know i will end up knowing

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I think I will know about it.. but not really help in planning... i'm sure I'll help pick the place out with my mom but as far as the details.. I'll leave it up to everyone else to plan.

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I think I will be able to figure it out since both me and my mom will have to come up from FL.

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I will probably know about it but just help plan

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i absolutely hate surprises, so no surprise. but i dont know if i'll help plan.

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I want it to be a suprise (never had a suprise party in my life), but my mom keeps saying how its not going to be one We'll see !

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I just told my MatOH that I wanted a lingerie shower and I'll set up a wish list on VS and Fredericks.

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surprise....