Are you inviting your minister/deacon/priest/rabbi to the RD?

Mici n KC Posted: Sep 02, 2008 03:56 PM

Are you inviting your minister/deacon/priest/rabbi to the RD?

FH mentioned this to me and I said no since we really don't have a relationship with him, but now I'm thinking it might be the right thing to do. Thoughts?

anneandchris Posted: Sep 02, 2008 03:57 PM

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We are not. We don't have a relationship with him.

PP424 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 03:59 PM

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We did, but he can't attend ours. I thought it would be nice to have him there, but they can't always attend because of the schedules.

Mici n KC Posted: Sep 02, 2008 04:12 PM

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Posted by anneandchris

We are not. We don't have a relationship with him.

We don't know him at all and no one in our BP does so it's not like he'll know anyone there anyway.

Mici n KC Posted: Sep 02, 2008 04:13 PM

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Posted by PP424

We did, but he can't attend ours. I thought it would be nice to have him there, but they can't always attend because of the schedules.

Yeah, I figured this could happen or he would just say he can't make it since he doesn't know anyone.

Dee0522 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 04:16 PM

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We didn't. I don't think it's necessary unless you have a personal relationship with the person.

jessnstu08 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 04:22 PM

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we did, and our rabbi looked at us like we have 4 heads . he said thanks but I will be in shul ( our rehersal is a friday night , which is shabbat )- DUH!, we felt so stupid

emomma17 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 05:27 PM

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No we did not.. my mother wants me to but I am not we don't have a relationship with him. FH's uncle who is also taking part in the ceremony is going to be at the reception so that will do.

snowcutie82 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 05:29 PM

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we are but he's friends and close with fh's side of the family.

melissatam2008 Posted: Sep 02, 2008 05:50 PM

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i dont think u should at least u guys r close to him or know him for a whiil..

Wifeynella Posted: Sep 02, 2008 06:14 PM

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we are because we have a relationship with him.

KimberlyScott Posted: Sep 02, 2008 06:41 PM

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We invited him to stay for the CH but, he politely declined.

Mici n KC Posted: Sep 02, 2008 06:44 PM

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Posted by emomma17

No we did not.. my mother wants me to but I am not we don't have a relationship with him. FH's uncle who is also taking part in the ceremony is going to be at the reception so that will do.

I'm referring to the RD not the reception. We are not inviting him to the wedding.