I wanted to put this out to all of you because I know it can be difficult to get what you want or have options for your guests when it come to no meat. So here goes.
1) If you are looking to do all vegitarian or vegan, Crest Hollow Country Club, talk to Elain Chow. She is vegitarian and was very excited to help me. Also a good person to talk to if you just want some vegitarian/vegan options. Very creative.
2) If you just want a place than knows how to take care of vegitarian or vegan guest, my cousin had her wedding at Lands End in Patchogue. They has plenty I could eat during the cocktail hour and they acommadated me for dinner, and quite nicely.