I have 7 girls in my bridal party and my MOH hinted to me that they want me to pay for it. Being only 23 I just don't have the money to do it.
I've only been in one wedding in which we payed for everything ourselves. I want to help them out but don't know what the expectations are.
Should I pay for all of them, hair and make-up? Should I pay for half of it?
Help girls!!!
Bee12
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@ WeezyGirl2354 - I tend to do that without realizing.. lol im just being real.. i was living in the clouds for 2mths when i start planning and then my FH and I started totaling our numbers...whew!! that brought me back to reality
@ BrideC - i know ! trust me, there is going to be more of that along the way.. just be firm & stand your ground! otherwise you will have a ' being too nice' bill... trust me, that happens to me during the holidays.
BrideC
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Halo- you are so right 'too nice bill'!!! That always happens to me!
BriansWifey
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i have 7 girls and 23 as well...... and i am not paying for their hair and make-up. i can't afford that. i was also thinking of paying for one of them, but idk yet. i definitly can't do both tho. everybody does what they can do or afford to do. ur MOH should understand that.
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Nope, I'm not paying for it. I'm not requiring them to get their hair or makeup done in any particular way, nor am I requiring them to go to my salon. They can go wherever they'd like.
Tetelove
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Im leaning towards paying for my girls makeup as part of their gift as well as their jewlery. Hair and nails will be up to them.
MikesBride2B
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I think I am going to give them $50 towards it.
Bee12
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I think I am going to give them $50 towards it.
i love it! .......a BM credit ..
BrideC
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I think I am going to give them $50 towards it.
That was an option I was thinking of too! Just pay for part of it, if we go to the same place or give them $ towards it (if I can afford it) if they do their own thing.
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I have been in MANY weddings, I am the last of my siblings and friends to get married. No bride has ever offered to pay for my hair or make up. I am going to pay for the girls make up but have them pay for their own hair.
CarolAnn721
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I am only paying for my MOH and mother.
chelley720
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im not payin for any of them im paying for enough!
gonzalezm3
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no, my sister and a friend are doing the hair and makeup. I feel your pain because i have 6 bridesmaids!
Future Mrs P
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No I am not. it was there choice to get hair and makeup. Everyone immediately said yes to hair but is still deciding on makeup as she doesn't need to exact count yet.
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Posted by KTnChris
i'm paying for makeup and having them pay for their hair. i feel like they would probably be paying for hair even if i didn't make them get it but not so much with the makeup. since i want them to have both i'm paying for the makeup.
