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Your first dance with the bridal party, or will you be the one two on the dance floor for the entire first dance?

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good question....hmmm i don't know yet.

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Since our first song isn't that long, it'll probably be just the two of us. Not 100% sure yet.

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we did our first song alone, then had a second song where everybody was invited (parents and BP first, then everyone) - i liked being alone for the first dance, it was very special.

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I'm doing the same thing as Deb! 2 songs too!

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i just asked john. we will have the BP join in in the middle of the song, then be alone for our spotlight dance later on

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I would like to have the first dance alone, but we are not great dancers. But hey does that really matter? LOL

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alone for the whole 1st dance is a great choice.

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We're not doing a spotlight dance, so we will have the first one all to ourselves
I like jpsgirl's idea of the second song for everyone else.

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we're going to be alone for the 1st dance. We've been taking ballroom dance lessons on and off since we first started dating, so we're going to show off

We're having the first dance (a waltz) choreographed. IMO dance lessons or a choreographed first dance is really impressive! (if you can drag FH to lessons and have the time and money!)

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he recommended dance lessons, I have about 4 months left...is that enough time to learn some stuff?

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No we are going to do the first dance alone

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Our first dance we dance the first verse to ourselves then the Dj asked the parents to join us for the 2nd verse. Then he played the song over and had the BP joined us. It was like dancing to our song 2x. Wether you share the floor or not you will always be the center of attention. No one ever misses the girl in the white dress.

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Alone

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We're doing the first dance alone and then having a second song where everyone joins in...first BP then everyone.

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We're doing the same as you Sasha

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definitely not going to share

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The first dance is only for me and future hubby that is our song.. I don't know if I will have a second slow song right away or if I will wait..

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Something I always wanted was for our first dance to just be by ourselves. Our song is so special to us and we want everyone to just be able to see that!

Plus, I also think it's awkward for the bridal party to have to dance with their 'partners' some of which barely know each other at times. I HATE that when I am in a wedding--having to slow dance with this stranger!! lol it depends on the bridal party though....