ARGH!!!

So one of my BMs (who is my FSIL) is the MOH in my other BM's wedding in August. I am a BM. SHe is working on picking a date for the bachelorette party for this friend- I told them I understand if they have to have it during my HM since it will eat up alot of July. She emails back all the BMs that she thinks the weekend of July 8th is the only good weekend for everyone. WTH! I am getting married on July 8th and she is in my freakin wedding. It kind of hurt my feelings that she didn't even remember.

I am sure that was an oversight, since she is trying to schedule something and may be stressed with her MOH duties. Did you tell her? What did she say?

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

I am sure that was an oversight, since she is trying to schedule something and may be stressed with her MOH duties. Did you tell her? What did she say?

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Thanks. I just got the email now - I sent her an email and just said that I am not free - and neither is she or my other friend since they are IN my wedding (the night before isn't an option either since it is a morning wedding). I told her it kind of hurt my feelings that she totally forgot about my wedding (even though I responded to her email about what days I am free for the bachelorrette party and said I wasn't free that weekend or the ones after since I would be on my HM). Plus I am getting married on FMIL (her mother)'s birthday - so it shouldn't be too difficult to remember the date. Obviously I know my wedding isn't a priority in everyone else's lives, but geesh!

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Posted by ZuzusPetals

yea that would not sit well with me. did she say it was just a misunderstanding?

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I just sent her an email - no response yet - since she is at work!