Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

cantwait2bewed Posted: Apr 19, 2005 11:59 AM

Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

One of my BM's said she would not be able to come to my e-party. Now mind u mean and her are pretty close. Her wedding is like 1 month from now in Michigan. So her FH is going away to Puerto Rico for his Bachelor Party this weekend. So she may not have a ride. I told her let me know and I will have someone come to pick her up. She is like i dont want to disturb u on your e-party day. I think she is just trying not to come. But why? I dont know. I am thinking b/c she doesnt work and her FH is the only one that works that she might not be able to bring something and she is copping out. But she should know that I am not greety like that. I couldnt care less. I dont live far from her i can have FH or my parents pick her up.

I try to help her out with her wedding stuff all of the time. I am always there for her. I am always going out of my way for people and I am so tired of it. Well forget it I aint' doing it no more. If she needs help with her wedding let her help her own self. Its like you are my good friend and u can't find a way to come to my party.

And get this another one of my BM's said she might not be able to come either. She gave me so many excuses. I have to calm down.

Maybe i am overreacting. But do u ladies think that your BM's should atleast come to these types of things or should it not matter?

csorisi Posted: Apr 19, 2005 12:36 PM

Re: Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

I think it really matters what their reasons are...my counsin couldn't come to by e-party and she is one of my BMs b/c she was going away that week but at the same time I had my friend from FL fly up for it. Maybe you should just talk to them...I think it has to be resolved bc it will only get worse as time goes on--I no longer talk to one of ex-BMs which in iteself is a long story but there was a lot of talking going on behind my back and it was out control so any problems you think are happening now I would try and get rid of--you don't need the added stress.

newnybride2be Posted: Apr 19, 2005 12:37 PM

Re: Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

Make sure you let her know that you really would love her presence there, and it really wouoldnt be a burden to you to find her a ride to your party.

mcaula Posted: Apr 19, 2005 12:45 PM

Re: Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

Yes make sure you explain to her the importance of her being there and it does'nt matter a gift or a ride you just want her there and I am sure she will come.

ChrissynRicky Posted: Apr 19, 2005 12:49 PM

Re: Arghhh so heated right now... Repost from 06 Board

I wouldn't assume any reason to why she isn't coming. Ask her straight out why she doesn't want to come to the E-Party. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable going w/out her man??? If it's really about the ride - that's BS - it's called Taxi, hitching a ride w/someone, etc!