ARGHHHH!!

I WANT TO HAVE A BABY!!!!

Sorry, I just needed to scream it somewhere!!!

I am really starting to get depressed with this waiting game. I so desperately want to start a family, but with our living situation and financial situation right now it is just not feasable. I want so bad to have a baby. I work around babies all day, we went to a street fair in Massapequa the other day and all I noticed were these pregnant mommies to be and a zillion strollers with precious little babies in them. I know the timing will never be right to have a baby so I want to start, but my DH won't budge on the issue. He says we have to wait til we are better off, which I agree with in a way, because I don't want to have a baby and struggle. So basically, thanks for letting me scream, the waiting game will just have to continue for a bit longer. Hopefully our situation will change in the coming months. I feel better getting this out!! Thank you!!!

I'm in the same boat (well not really). Actually, the only thing that we really share in common is that we want a baby and don't have one! The difference is that I'm actually trying and it's not happening!!!!!!!! Now THAT is discouraging! When you and your DH want it and it doesn't happen (not from lack of trying.) While we're venting, it's equally frustrating to feel pregnant EVERY month because you are so psychologically messed up from trying so hard and overanalyze everything on your body and the way you feel every minute of every day! And YES, I agree ... when you want a baby so badly, it seems that they're everywhere. So, wow .. . sorry I took away from your vent, but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in feeling discouraged, and when the time is right, it will happen (for both of us.) Everyone I know says, 'Don't rush it!' Easier said than done.

I understand....mu situation is a combo of living, money & health for me. I am getting my health in line first. As for the living situation, well, the housing market is not helping me at this present time.

Everytime I go anywhere and see children I breakdown and start balling....i mean downright crying.....to the point where I make myself sick. All I think about is having a family and what do I need to get to that point. When I see parents abusing children, I get so upset!

DH thinks the same way your does, which I actually agree with. Only because, I think it would be best. I want the best situation for my kids. If a little bit of waiting could make things a bit easier, then so be it.

If you ever need to chat, or would like to scream together, let me know....I coiuld also use a buddy to go through this with.

Mish

Your time will come....

I know and I understand you. When you want to have a baby you start to notice more babies around you.... pregnant moms, everything is saying baby!

For now you can prepare yourself and your body until the right time comes to have your baby.... and hopefully it will be soon