arguing w/ FH.. ugh.

I feel like as the wedding is approaching and all the stress is hitting at once between things going wrong, people cancelling last min every day, and plus trying to close on a house, every time i talk with FH it seems like i am arguing with him over something. This morning he called me twice at work and i had like yelling matches with him on the phone (over him not calling people/vendors) and i'm sure my coworkers think i'm nuts

...anyone else going through this leading up to the wedding? it feels like i shouldn't bother to talk to him b/c we will be arguing about something else! argh.

i'm totally in a fight with FH right now too and yes, we fight all the freakin' time recently. and i still have almost 3 months to go

YESSSSSSSS!!!!! you are not alone date twin!
This happened sunday with FH and I. Nothing gets crossed off his list and it seems everytime i get something done, i end up inheriting something he should be doing! AHHHHHH
I completely fell apart this wknd. I totally feel your pain. We agreed to do a TON of stuff this week, that way we can enjoy this holiday wknd... now he is on top of his list!

Im sorry youre going through that.

Try not to argue over everything though - its already stressful that the wedding is coming up. Maybe later go home and talk it out instead of yelling. Explain to him the things you need him to help out with to alleviate some of the stress you have.

Yelling never helps - it only makes it worse IMO.

Good luck hun!! We are here if you need to vent

its totally normal. the days leading up to the wedding i was like a big ball of stress that was ready to explode and sometimes it caused fights between FH and I. Don't worry, your almost there!

geez. well, im not that much close to my wedding, but it seems like I fight with my fiance more over things now than I did before we were engaged (we didn't fight at all, honest to god).

he tells me i can do whatever I want, he wants little to do with the planning as possible. i wanted 8 bridemaids (i know, nuts, but all were my close friends)....he got his mother to talk me down to 3, because my fiance couldn't come up with the other 4 groomsmen. i want hockey player cake toppers and his sister in law and mother are telling me that's unclassy....ITS A CAKE TOPPER! and i thought derek would like it, and he told me he did, but when it came to being cornered by his mom and sister in law, he didn't say one word.

now he wants to know why i wanted a private ceremony....i am not equipped to compete with anyone telling me what I should do on MY day.

i have a friend getting married this weekend and she too is going back and forth with everything. what is it with men and weddings? and you know, my fiance wanted this big wedding, not me. its not really my thing and plus i dont like to stress, i have enough going on as it is. and when i ask for something to get done, it's like pulling teeth. i asked my fiance to call the church and ask why haven't we heard about precana? i couldn't call that day cuz i was booked with meetings at work and since he was off, what was the issue?

men. i dread the final weeks to come. hopefully everything will work out though and you'll have fun and its all us crazy women stressing over nothing. lol.