Arguing with FH

siffleuse319 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:40 PM

Arguing with FH

Anyone else arguing more frequently lately? We've been bickering over ridiculous stuff, but it's really getting me down.

NC1011 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:41 PM

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WOW!!! I was just feeling the same way. We just got into an argument about an hour ago about our STD's. I wanna do them myself and he thinks its a hassle and should just pay someone to do it. I mean, honestly, I'm not asking him to do them.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:42 PM

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don't let it get you down - it's NORMAL. Completely and totally normal.

Sometimes when we're both stressed we fight like mortal enemies.

It will pass...

dannisayz Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:42 PM

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Yes. Plus, more of his silly habits annoy me. Like the way he sneezes and clears his throat in the morning. ARG! Plus, he eats Potato Chips and junk food in front of me knowing I just started South Beach on Monday! I'm too nice to say anything, but it is driving me insane.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:42 PM

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Posted by NC1011

WOW!!! I was just feeling the same way. We just got into an argument about an hour ago about our STD's. I wanna do them myself and he thinks its a hassle and should just pay someone to do it. I mean, honestly, I'm not asking him to do them.

OMG, I HATE when they pick fights like that!!!

Smiley7092 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:43 PM

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Aw I'm sorry you are fighting a lot. My FH works shifts and he has been working 12 hour overnights so I haven't even seen him, so no fighting for me!

MSeed Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:44 PM

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FH and I have been fighting about saving money and the budget. It is normal....I hope.

NC1011 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:46 PM

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Posted by MSeed

FH and I have been fighting about saving money and the budget. It is normal....I hope.

Us too. Only, FH keeps talking about how much the wedding is costing and how we need to start watching our dollars here and there and then whenever I do, he has something to say about it. ***????!!!!!!

violiz Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:47 PM

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YES! We've actually been pretty good the past week and a half. But pretty much the whole month of December, we argued--a lot. Like you guys said it was mostly to do with savings and budgeting, and staying organized.
We're on a good streak right now, I hope I didn't just jinx it

DiamondPipa Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:48 PM

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dont worry...it will pass.....the fighting comes and goes. there are times we want to kill each other.....now we are in our love mode again.... the wedding stress does this to u

SoontobeMrsMc Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:49 PM

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Posted by dannisayz

Yes. Plus, more of his silly habits annoy me. Like the way he sneezes and clears his throat in the morning. ARG! Plus, he eats Potato Chips and junk food in front of me knowing I just started South Beach on Monday! I'm too nice to say anything, but it is driving me insane.

Ha ha ha!!!! My FH knows I'm trying to eat healthy- so he not only went and picked up pizza but then actually opened a bag of dorito's and started to lick each and every one in front of me. Did I mention that he also went and bought me a bag of chocolate kisses!!!! Grr!

siffleuse319 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:50 PM

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You guys rock...I'm glad to hear that there's other frustrated couples. We were such a solid team, and I feel like this engagement has been dragging us down. He's more silent and I'm more naggy than ever. I'm not even having a lavish affair...but we are funding the entire thing ourselves. I don't even know what I'm so annoyed at anymore. I feel like I've had really awful PMS for the past two months......I need a break. But thanks for your stories and support!

catsgirl Posted: Jan 09, 2008 06:52 PM

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YES, i have been really down over the ridiculous bickering, were both putting in massive hours at work to pay for everything, i think were just tired , and our stress levels are up, i love planning my wedding but ill be happy when our day comes.

dannisayz Posted: Jan 09, 2008 08:18 PM

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

Posted by dannisayz

Yes. Plus, more of his silly habits annoy me. Like the way he sneezes and clears his throat in the morning. ARG! Plus, he eats Potato Chips and junk food in front of me knowing I just started South Beach on Monday! I'm too nice to say anything, but it is driving me insane.

Ha ha ha!!!! My FH knows I'm trying to eat healthy- so he not only went and picked up pizza but then actually opened a bag of dorito's and started to lick each and every one in front of me. Did I mention that he also went and bought me a bag of chocolate kisses!!!! Grr!

What I wouldn't do for Cool Ranch Doritos and Pizza right now . . .

The worst part is, the clubs at the school where I work do Pizza sales AND get the pizza from my favorite pizza place. I have my hall duty right in front of the pizza sale. I want to murder them all!!!

Ms Sawney Posted: Jan 09, 2008 08:33 PM

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I argue with FH so much lately I think its because of the pressure and so much happening at one time

cherish83 Posted: Jan 09, 2008 08:45 PM

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Yup!! And I barely see him since i work from 8-4 and he works 5-1am (he leaves for work at 4). So its like when we ARE together I dont want to be fighting and that gets me even more depressed.

luna bride x Posted: Jan 09, 2008 09:23 PM

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oh lord can i relate

i spend new years eve crying my asss off because my FSIL is taking forever to get me the addresses i need for my STDs - which of course turned into a huge fight between me and my fiance.

i feel so bridezilla-ish

Nirvin Posted: Jan 09, 2008 09:25 PM

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O yeh! And over really petty things. We usually never argue. But I was told that the closer we get to the wedding, the more we'll argue. I guess its true.

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Jan 09, 2008 09:57 PM

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Yeah we are too! We're both so stressed out with work and school, and then getting ready for graduation and the real world, he's applying to residencies, i'm working on wedding plans... we just have to try and stop taking it out on each other!