As you get closer to your day...

KittyGags Posted: Jul 15, 2009 09:19 AM

As you get closer to your day...

Do you feel like you can't digest food?

Maybe its a combo of trying to move/closing on a house/trying to sell our apartment/planning a wedding + work, but I seriously feel like I have such bad anxiety...

I think FH is scared of me because one second i'm laughing and the next i'm crying...

Please pass the xanax!

lilmartha59 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 09:24 AM

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i swear i never had anxiety and just a few months ago i started to feel weird.i really dont know what to do and how to control it, i told my doctor and she said 'just take it easy' im hoping the moment we get married it goes away

geegee827 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:08 AM

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I can't digest food and I can't sleep! I was teetering on the edge with just the wedding planning and then when the people accepted the offer on the house on Monday, I was pushed right off the cliff!

I swear, I really want to call my dr and ask for a prescription!

digio809 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:17 AM

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Posted by KittyGags

Do you feel like you can't digest food?

Maybe its a combo of trying to move/closing on a house/trying to sell our apartment/planning a wedding + work, but I seriously feel like I have such bad anxiety...

I think FH is scared of me because one second i'm laughing and the next i'm crying...

Please pass the xanax!

We are closing on our house on Tuesday... 10 DAYS before our wedding! So we will be moving and doing all the last minute wedding things a week before the wedding!!!

cedesnyc Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:19 AM

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I'm feeling very anxious lately but its a combination of many things

In Love Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:22 AM

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Yes I feel the same way...Just alto of anxiety..I still need to get my invitations out and sunday was my shower so now im stressing THANK YOUS!! its just everything is getting so close now and its feels so so real that it will be here before I know it. So im hoping tonight to stay up and get the invitations DONE!

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:24 AM

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im not going to lie, my anxiety was a lot worse last month! with one month to go i thought i would be bugging out!
i guess at this point you gotta just let what ever happens happen!

(ask again when im like a week away, i might have a different story)

bride2bebe Posted: Jul 15, 2009 11:32 AM

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I feel the same way- your doing a lot and so are we. I don't even know myself anymore.

I keep trying to do things and feel like I am spinning around in circles!

I don't even sleep at night- I wake up at 3: 30 am every night and toss and turn!

gina409 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 11:33 AM

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sadly..my body always seems to fina a way to keep digesting all the food i continu to shove down my throat....thats why i am being lifted n by a crane into the church

bride2bebe Posted: Jul 15, 2009 11:34 AM

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Posted by gina409

sadly..my body always seems to fina a way to keep digesting all the food i continu to shove down my throat....thats why i am being lifted n by a crane into the church

ahahahhahahahaha!

geegee827 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 11:50 AM

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Posted by gina409

sadly..my body always seems to fina a way to keep digesting all the food i continu to shove down my throat....thats why i am being lifted n by a crane into the church

Gina - you crack me up! I needed that laugh today!

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: Jul 15, 2009 12:14 PM

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Oh it gets worse as you get closer. The last week I cried every day and telling my father 'I cannot do this' then like 10 min later I would cry to DH and say 'I cannot wait to marry you' I lost 5 lbs in one week I basically stopped eating which was so bad. I know what you are going through. We closed on our house 1 month before the wedding and we had to have work done on it so we couldnt even move in right away.

But the day of my wedding I woke up happy, cool as a cucumber and able to eat again. I was fine all day until I was driving to the church and drove passed my old house and I started crying and it continued down the aisle lol. After I saw DH and he held my hand, I was fine!

mlcvln129 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 01:28 PM

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YES!!! I had major stomach problems all week last week. Tums and Pepcid AC were my BFFs. On the night of the wedding, I was fine up until I went to sleep. . .stomach problems came back again.

jmbc2377 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 01:55 PM

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I'm fine with food - lol - but sleeping has become a problem. Oh well - it's overrated.

MrsGRod09 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 01:57 PM

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I want to eat more not less and i'm starting to feel really really anxious..oyyy

KittyGags Posted: Jul 15, 2009 02:04 PM

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Well I took some xanax this am and i feel a little better and I just INHALED room service.

I threw up everything I ate for dinner last night so at least I have a normal meal in me now...ahhhhhh

I'm hoping it gets better after this weekend when we move...but I know alot of it is wedding related. Alot of people feel sad after their weddings are over but I get the feeling I'm going to be one of those people thats relieved. I can't wait to have my LIFE back.

KittyGags Posted: Jul 15, 2009 02:06 PM

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Posted by In Love

Yes I feel the same way...Just alto of anxiety..I still need to get my invitations out and sunday was my shower so now im stressing THANK YOUS!! its just everything is getting so close now and its feels so so real that it will be here before I know it. So im hoping tonight to stay up and get the invitations DONE!

Ps my shower was Sunday too and i wrote all my thank yous Monday and yesterday and dropped them in the mail when I left work yesterday. I knew if I waited that I'd NEVER get them done...

Darla576 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 02:35 PM

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I feel like I'm losing my mind completely. I have lists, piles of receipts/papers all over my room and I feel like I still have 100 things to do and only 9 days to do it. I feel like when I finish one thing, there is always something else that comes up (stupid drama or more projects I give to myself). I look foward to sleeping on the beach in Hawaii.