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Asking the BM

Kimbiz1 Posted:

Asking the BM

So it's totally assumed that my FH's brother will be his BM but he hasn't actually asked him yet. Should we do something as a couple and ask or just the boys or is it fine just to take him aside at a family gathering and 'pop the question?'

DnT2010 Posted:

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i think it depends on your FHs personality. is he one to make a big deal about things or is he more laid back? let him decide and its totally fine for him to ask himself, it is his best man after all..

LaurenJosh Posted:

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Well I know my FH didn't want to make a big thing out of asking his friends. He just casually asked each one separately when he saw them. I guess it all depends on your FH and how he feels.

RedsBride Posted:

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Posted by LaurenJosh

Well I know my FH didn't want to make a big thing out of asking his friends. He just casually asked each one separately when he saw them. I guess it all depends on your FH and how he feels.


I agree, my fh did the same thing. he just asked them, as did i. we didnt want to make a huge deal. just wanted to keep it simple
Kimbiz1 Posted:

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Thanks Gals

JillandJoe Posted:

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cards are nice, or cookies, some sites have cookies that are cute for asking bm

SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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I know that my FH is just going to ask his brothers, guys don't usually get all into it like girls do lol.

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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FH just asked his guys, very informally. I did something nice for all my girls.

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