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Asking the bridal party

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

Asking the bridal party

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?
NikkiR515 Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?




For whatever reason, FH wants to wait another month to ask his GM... I think he is having a hard time choosing and he does not want to hurt anyone's feelings.... I asked my girls this week (even though most of them already knew and they all said yes!
When I asked my sister to be flower girl (she is 5) she was soooo happy! My step mom told me she now practices walking down the aisle and throwing flowers at home!
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?




For whatever reason, FH wants to wait another month to ask his GM... I think he is having a hard time choosing and he does not want to hurt anyone's feelings.... I asked my girls this week (even though most of them already knew and they all said yes!
When I asked my sister to be flower girl (she is 5) she was soooo happy! My step mom told me she now practices walking down the aisle and throwing flowers at home!



OMG I think I was more excited about the kids saying yes lol! I think they are sooo cute!

FH was supposed to ask his guys at our e-party back in April but he keeps on making excuses. He knows who he wants to ask but he just feels weird (as he says)
NikkiR515 Posted:

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Yeah I think it's just a guy thing.... I am giving him until the end of June and then he better get to it!

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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thats great! I still haven't asked all my BM's ...maybe i should get on that! lol

My Fh hasn't even asked the guy that he wants to be his best man

haha he has one person and thats my brother
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Im definitely sensing that its a guy thing. I figured if I start getting on his case now, maybe by this time next year he will have asked everyone.
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im definitely sensing that its a guy thing. I figured if I start getting on his case now, maybe by this time next year he will have asked everyone.



lol seriously it must be!
Autumnbride03 Posted:

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i sent all my girls cute cards that said 'will you be my bridesmaid/moh?' with a special message inside for each of them. they loved it!

I did my RB and FG much less formally... i pretty much told FH's sister her sons would be the RBs lol and i emailed FG's mom (a close family friend)

FH took forever to ask his guys too! I kept asking him and he was getting annoyed with me.. i was like what are you waiting for??

finally, while we were all sitting on the couch, last weekend visiting his parents, he said to his brother, 'So.... best man?'
lol. Men!!

he did the other guys just as nonchalant too. what is it with them?
beram63 Posted:

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FH procrastinated like crazy, but everyone has officially accepted at this point.

jgl Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?



hahahah.. do i even have to answer this? hahah
Soon2BMrsC09 Posted:

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I asked 3 of my girls in person but of course and it took a while to get my last BM to hang out and I finally asked her - FH on the other hand - has asked ONE GM so far - oh and FYI its my brother - he just feels that when its right - since they only have to order the tuxes a few months before hand - whats the rush

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Were doing ours at the e-party in July. FH made the cutest cards to ask them with:)
If hes having aproblem just have him send them something lol
WinterGrl09 Posted:

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No pretty much all our GMs knew that they were going to be in the BP. FH didn't do anything special to ask them.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?



hahahah.. do i even have to answer this? hahah



LOL Gina, i figure if I start getting on Pete's case he will end up asking everyone maybe a week before the wedding!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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I think our GM's pretty much know they will be GM's without even havin to ask... very close knit grp of friends

lanamanitta Posted:

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That's great you're all done!! My FH beat me to the finish asking the guys . . . he was so excited he couldn't help himself and actually asked everyone in like, one day!

CNC4eva3402 Posted:

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YAY!!!! Must feel great!!!

I still haven't asked anyone except my MOH and FH can't even deceide who he wants yet
jgl Posted:

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Well I finally asked all of my girls and they said yes!! So now I have one MOH and 4 BM and two ring bearers and one flower girl. I have one more call to ask one more flower girl and then im done!

The flower girls response was the cutest. Her mom asked her, 'Do you want to be a flower girl in Kristen's wedding?' and she said, 'I dooooo!' lol

Now FH just needs to ask his guys. Are any of your FH's having a difficult time asking their GM?



hahahah.. do i even have to answer this? hahah



LOL Gina, i figure if I start getting on Pete's case he will end up asking everyone maybe a week before the wedding!




just tell pete to call James like james did to him hahaha they are such morons!!!! but we love them
Jayla127 Posted:

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Fh is driving me crazy about picking his GM's. I have been hounding him for months. My girls are already picked and I need him to complete the bridal party. Sometimes I feel like doing it myself.

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