this has been a topic that i have spoken about countless times & i am still torn on what to do. the bridemaids will be my cousins. i was going to ask them at christmas, which would of put a strees on mine & FH's plans. we go to my parents for christmas eve & christmas day FH cooks & his mom & grandmother come over. but since i wont see all my cousins at my parents, FH would have to cook earlier so we can make it to my uncles in time to see everyone. he agreed to doing this but i feel bad to rush the day like that.
so today i received an e-mail about the cousins getting together before christmas. & since i am sure everyone will be asking about wedding plans maybe i should just ask then.
what does everyone think?
TIA
grrulz
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i would do it on the get together because even though xmas is about family and exchanging gifts its more family and you want to be with the family instead of rushing from one place to the other so that you can ask your cousins! good luck
angelatp
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I think it's your perfect opportunity to ask them when all your cousins are around. It'll be close to xmas, and would'n t have to worry about rushing FH.
FallBride2010
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will there be other cousins there that you arent including? that would be my only concern...you dont want anyone to feel left out.
christine2010
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will there be other cousins there that you arent including? that would be my only concern...you dont want anyone to feel left out.
no one is left out.
amandah75
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I think that's the perfect time so you can still have your christmas dinner with FHs family.
Yankees2323
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i think you should do it then.... you dont want to rush christmas and also FH;s parents might get offended if you rush them...
rocketsummer17
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i think asking at the gathering would be the perfect time...it makes sense.
T E R I
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I would do it at the gathering, this way christmas won't be rushed
Kimmypie143
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i like that idea!
Goldie39
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i am with everyone else. looks like you have your bridal party blues solved!
Mrs Z To Be
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that sounds like a plan!
christine2010
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sounds good to me. i am super excited. i will have to get a start on my DIY project now.
