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Assigned Seating?!?

JAAMS Posted:

Assigned Seating?!?

Ok, so I am so confused. I originally thought that for the E-party, we were NOT going to have assigned seating. I did assigned seating for my Graduation Party and everyone just sat where they wanted to anyway.

However, I've started thinking more about it. Here are mine pros & cons:

The Biggest pro is this one: There are quite a few families of 4-6 people coming; the tables seat 10 each. I don't want them to show up and have to like split apart. And yeah, people could always move around, but what if there's no room left at ANY table for a family of 4?

The biggest con is this: It's time consuming, and if I'm going to do it, I want people to listen! Granted, the people know each other a lot better than at the Grad Party, so they might be more inclinced to sit where I make the settings for, but who knows!

We also want the E-party to be casual, so I don't know if assigned seating takes that up a notch. However, I really don't want families to be displaced!

If you think I SHOULD do it, I need to get place cards & table settings from somewhere. I'd like them to be island themed as well. I would like each table to be a different tropical island (since our party is Island themed) We already have centerpieces, so do I get like a sign or a stand or something?

Also, who do FH & I sit with? We couldn't fit me, him, his parents, my parents, and my siblings & their families at one table. So do we sit with the BMs and MOHs and their dates?

Also, there's a decent amount of kids 17 & under who I KNOW will want to be together. Do I make 1 or 2 kids tables or something then?? SO confused.
Help!!!!!!!
StaceYums81 Posted:

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I don't think u should do it - they won't expect it anyway. IMO everyone's on their own with seating for something like this...

StaceYums81 Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81

I don't think u should do it - they won't expect it anyway. IMO everyone's on their own with seating for something like this...




ETA: I actually went to a WEDDING with open seating last year and everyone was glad we loved it actually...
jlt2010 Posted:

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Posted by StaceYums81


Posted by StaceYums81

I don't think u should do it - they won't expect it anyway. IMO everyone's on their own with seating for something like this...




ETA: I actually went to a WEDDING with open seating last year and everyone was glad we loved it actually...



i went to a wedding last year with open seating as well. and that was great. we got to sit with whoever we wanted. you should be able to get away with open seating without any drama. people should be able to take care of themselves and seat themselves with no problem.
JillandJoe Posted:

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I didn't and regret it alittle... a few of my friends sat alone or a table with so few people cuz they didn't know anyone else... I felt like I had to babysit... if your thinking it might help it prob will

MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I had a graduation party a few months ago and didn't do assigned seating. I had wanted to last minute, but I ended up not doing it. Everyone kind of went to where I would have placed them anyways. If it will be confusing for you, then I wouldn't suggest doing it. People will kinda float to where they want to IMO.
Good Luck!
JAAMS Posted:

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BUMP

b/c I'd really like as many opinions as possible b/c both FH & I are really torn about this. And he usually doesn't care too much about the little things lol!
JenBill61210 Posted:

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we didn't do assigned seating and i kinda wish i did now that i look back because the day of i was stressing on where to sit people where... FH's parents are divorced so essentially there are two sides to his family that dont want to sit next to each other. so i had to end up moving chairs here and there to make sure they had a place to sit at a table where they knew someone or people that was in their family... as for FH and I we just ended up sitting at a table that was open (ended up being one with my parents).. good luck!

Maria5117 Posted:

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It depends on the kind of party you're having... you said it's casual so you don't really need to unless you want to... Are you having food... is it buffet... drinks, etc? Our e-party is on June 7 and we are doing the seating arrangement...but ours is formal... cocktail hour, dj, entreee, desert hour, etc.... as for where you'd sit, FH and I are having a dais for the two of us up front....

little j Posted:

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ours was in a restaurant and we did assigned seating. no one complained (well almost no one..but thats another story), and it worked out fine.

fh and i sat with the 'unofficial' bridal party (it wasnt announces yet). both sets of parents sat together. and family friends had to sit with other family friends.

as we saw it, this was the time for the two families to get to know eachother...if we didnt do assigned seating, everyone would wind up sitting with the people they already knew and not meeting new ppl.


hth.
SummerBride10 Posted:

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I wouldnt bother with assigned seating at the eparty. Wayyy too much work and aggravation!

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