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August Bride feeling so behind...

summerbride20 Posted:

August Bride feeling so behind...

My wedding is in August...

and I don't even have my major vendors booked yet.

I haven't even tried on a single wedding dress yet. I rushed to make my first appointment on Friday to look at gowns because I was told by many places/people that I am behind on buying a dress and I might have to pay steep fees to rush order a dress. Who knew it took so long? I don't want to feel rushed into purchasing a dress though because in the wedding world 6-7 months is too little time...

and I still have not met with any florists or photographers.

I have not booked musicians and i have not yet met/discussed the ceremony with my officiant.

I hate signing in on the knot.com and seeing all the ticking alarm clocks showing me how behind I am!! I feel like I won't be able to book everything until at LEAST march. (around the 5 month mark??)

Am I in big trouble?

jackieee Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

Nope. I'm August and just started doing all those things. Start researching and setting appts now, but don't feel rushed! I still need a DJ, and havent even looked/thought about flowers! I just booked photo/video and just got a dress. You'll be fine. Just try to call/research/set up appts!

Good luck. Dont stress!
cleokizzy Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

you still have time. don't stress too much, that will not help with any of the planning process!

i suggest figuring out what you want (style/theme) first to help narrow down your options. i had a lot of time to plan but i lost those months in planning because i couldn't figure out what i wanted.
bride2be1012 Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

You will be fine. Start doing research on all your major vendors. Do enough research that you narrow it down to 1 or 2 for each vendor. Then try to schdule an appointment every week. If you can stick to this plan you can have everyone booked quickly.
Let us know if you need suggestions for vendors. I'm if you tell us what you are looking for all the girls on here can hep you narrow down your lists.
Good luck.
ETA: Try and book the same videographer/ photographer if you can. That will save you time in looking for a seprate videographer. You could also consider booking everything at a wedding plaza. That way, you get everything out of the way in one try.
Mrsmonty Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

well if you are behind then where am I. I am still looking at RHs and I am planning for this summer!!!!!!!! You will be fine : )
springsandra Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

I wasn't even engaged at this point last year (nor had I planned a single thing) and we got married in July, 6 months and one day later.

There's plenty of time. Don't worry about others' timelines and just take it one step at a time with your planning.

Feel free to FM me if you want a personalized checklist as far as what to do when or at least what I did when.

Don't panic!!!! Your wedding will be FABULOUS!!!!
soontobecruz Posted:

Re: August Bride feeling so behind...

I think you do have a little time. However, you are also running the risk of not getting your first choice in vendors bc it is very possible they are booked.

I would start making some appointments and seeing who is available. Luckily August isn't a super busy month in terms of weddings

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