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Is AF late? (Sorry I've never charted so I don't know how to read that correctly)

kathy, i am so sorry to hear that you are going through this tough time. i did not even realize what was going on because my hard drive failed and i was without a computer for two days.

listen, try not to worry too much. it is possible for levels to drop and then shoot back up and result in a fine pregnancy. maybe that is what has happened. your temps are still up and THAT is what matters the most. so i am thinking very positive for you.

i know it will be impossible, but try to relax this weekend and monday you will have answers.

Sending lots of hugs.......

I'm sorry. I don't know much about charting so I don't know much about temping.

The only advice I can give you and I know it will be hard is to try to stop testing until AF is actually late. I think I remember your doctor telling you not to test early.

Maybe you and DH can get out and do stuff this weekend that will keep your mind off things. Don't give up hope yet just try not to think abou it (easier said than done I know).

We all know what an emotional time this is. Post anything you like and we are here for you, since we can't help any other way.

Lots of and

I am so sorry. Did you take different brands of test or were they all the same. A friend of mine got a bunch of BFP and then bought a different type of test and got all BFN. I don't know if that helps but it could be what happened. See what the doctor says. YOu are in my thoughts and prayers. I know it is hard but hang in there the whole TTC thing is one big emotional rollercoaster. Best of luck.

Kathy-Did you read my post to you below??? That info on the tests makes a LOT OF SENSE!
Please...hang in there... Stya home on Monday and go have a blood test from the Dr. if you can..and STOP TESTING. I mean it, its gonna kill ya cause of the positives, negatives, not knowing...but just try as hard as you can untill Monday ok? Its making you feel worse.
Can you do anything this weekend to get your mind off of it?
THEN..on Monday ( can you actually go and see the dr for anappointment??) I think you should talk to him, see if its truly a PG or not...and then explain your charts ...all of it...and find out where to go....tell the Dr. how upset this is making you. You need to talk to him to get a clearer sense. In the meantime..big hugs...and Im praying for you!

Are you waiting enough time between testing or are you (sorry if TMI) peeing in a cup and diping the different tests in the same cup? If your not peeing in a cup, you may not be waiting enough time between POAS and your urine might be dialuted.

I'm really really pulling for you. The only reason I got online today was to see how you were doing.

Just remember that even if this month isn't your month it's not like it's your last chance by any means!!

Every month that goes by I get really bummed when we don't get a BFP, but I think about what the next month brings and when a new due date would be and try to focus on the positives.

For example: Since it looks like this month isn't my month, I've been thinking about how July would be a good month to concieve (I only ovulate every other month) because the baby would come in April and then it would be spring and good weather to be off work.

Then I do something for myself that I know I won't be able to do when I'm preggo or once we have a baby - spontaneous weekend away with DH or a massage or lots of wine. Something just for me.

You have such a great DH and such a good marriage - focus on that to get you through this month and the next two days!!

I know my words are kind of meaningless compared to what your emotions are doing to you, but try to refocus so you have positive thoughts and feelings. I'm VERY glad you decided to stop testing - it sounds like it's only making you more stressed.

Stay positive and focused on other things. This WILL happen for you and for all of us when the time is right!!

I am sorry you are going through this. Try to keep thinking positive.
Please keep us posted, remember, we are here for you.

Kathy, Kathy, Kathy.... please stop doing this to yourself! I know how much you really want this, but you can't keep playing a guessing game with yourself until you can confirm being preggo. I hope that you are keeping away from your POAS addiction (smile! ), and will have a few glasses of wine tonight (if you are pregnant, it won't hurt you or the baby). You need to relax with DH, and probably get a nice massage, and keep yourself as distracted as possible, so that Monday can come quick, and you can confirm with a blood test... or possibly with another test, since it'd be closer to when AF was due.

Sending you strength & patience!

I hope the doc tells you what you are waiting to hear!