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xBudgetBridex Posted:

B list

For those brides that had a b list, how did you do your invitations?? Starting to think about invitations and this came up tonight.
Don't I have to send out the second batch of invites with a different rsvp date? So for example the fist group goes out with a Jan rsvp date and the b list invites go out with a Feb rsvp date.

Very confused by this and don't know why to do! Any input would be appreciated!!
SweatingForTheWedding Posted:

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I would just send the A list 4 months in advance and the B list 2 months in advance. All with the same date. Hopefully, people respond back right away.

Alimm729 Posted:

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I sent out my invites on Friday. The first no I get, I'm sending to the first person on the b list and so on. Same RSVP date.

SweatingForTheWedding Posted:

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I like your idea better than mine! Ahhhaha

xBudgetBridex Posted:

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That's a good idea but my only concern is im inviting 210 I think and my min is 175 I already know a few people won't come ( elderly and too far) but the rest will depend on the plus 1s....im afraid to send an invite after a no and then be over!

xBudgetBridex Posted:

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Bump any other suggestions?

Alimm729 Posted:

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Depending on what your B list looks like, I would do, if you get a single no, send out a single invite. If you get a no from a couple, send to a b list couple. That way your numbers always match. Other than that, I've got nothing. lol.

killerqueen Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

Depending on what your B list looks like, I would do, if you get a single no, send out a single invite. If you get a no from a couple, send to a b list couple. That way your numbers always match. Other than that, I've got nothing. lol.



Yeah, this is what I think we are going to do. Otherwise I think you would have to have two sets with different dates.
Kimberley2015 Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

I sent out my invites on Friday. The first no I get, I'm sending to the first person on the b list and so on. Same RSVP date.



Love this!!!! Thank you for putting it so simple =)
Djswedding Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

I sent out my invites on Friday. The first no I get, I'm sending to the first person on the b list and so on. Same RSVP date.



That's an awesome idea!!
terrylovesroy Posted:

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Posted by SweatingForTheWedding

I would just send the A list 4 months in advance and the B list 2 months in advance. All with the same date. Hopefully, people respond back right away.



THIS... I JUST DID IT YESTERDAY
xBudgetBridex Posted:

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Terry you sent out your invites already?

ctdesign200 Posted:

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Wonderful idea for A and B list. This post helped a lot. I had no idea what to do

ctdesign200 Posted:

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Wonderful idea for A and B list. This post helped a lot. I had no idea what to do

kedjmay2015 Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

Depending on what your B list looks like, I would do, if you get a single no, send out a single invite. If you get a no from a couple, send to a b list couple. That way your numbers always match. Other than that, I've got nothing. lol.



I like this idea!
StarIzInkd Posted:

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I wish I had a helpful idea for you since I already went through all of that. Everything was completely messed up for me though because soooo many people said NO and sooo may ppl didn't even RSVP. Just be on top of everything I guess and yes when you get one no, send out a B list. I wish I hadn't waited so long to send out B-lists.

Meglbu Posted:

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Posted by Alimm729

I sent out my invites on Friday. The first no I get, I'm sending to the first person on the b list and so on. Same RSVP date.




Love this idea!
Sarahg9 Posted:

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Such a good idea! I was going to start a B list because I have a feeling some of FH's family won't come from out of state since we aren't having kids at the wedding

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