B Party vent

I know I don't post often, and mostly lurk, but at this point, I really have no other forum to vent about this issue.

Okay....so I am trying to set up my B-party and my MOH is helping. We're planning on going to NYC.

Here is the issue....everyone invited is from all over LI....plus some girls can't stay out all night due to other commitments on Sunday.

In any case, as nice, wonderful, convenient a limo would be, I told her I'd rather us all take the train into the city. She feels differently.

SO...she sends out an invite email today, putting wording in about the limo. A friend says she's in, minus the limo, and now MOH is sort of 'pushing' the limo issue with her. Is she going to push it on everyone?

Why can't it just be what I want? Is it so bad to take the railroad? Seriously...she is pi$$ing me off and I'm ready to just say screw it.

Thanks for letting me vent....very annoyed bride to be.

well it really should be about what you want. .

is it possible that she wants it when you are in the city bc she has it planned to run from one place to another? I would just explain to her again that while you appreciate that she is trying to make it nice for you that you REALLY would prefer just to do the train and the other is stressing you out. . or re-explain since it seems like you did already

Thanks for the response.

I know our plan is to go to LIPS for dinner/show......after that it's up in the air (from my point of view).

So maybe that's a good point, but at the same time, I voiced my opinion to her. A few times now.

I guess I have to explain it once again and maybe she will get it. Or not.

Hmm. . well maybe put it to her that you think that it will make the other girls not be able to come. . and that you are worried that people won't turn up if you do the limo so while you think she is so great for making it happen that you're really just asking her to listen to you

and lips is SOOO easy to get to from the LIRR. . either a quick cab or a quick subway ride. . it's literally so close

Out of the four girls in the bridal party, only two can go. One is out of state and the other will be out of state.

The one BM going is all for the LIRR....so it's really just the MOH that is pushing for it. And my MOH is also a single mom, so I am also trying to save her $$$.

Plus, I don't think enough people will be able to make it so that the price per person is reasonable for the limo.

I just think she should respect how I feel, and also respect everyone that is invited and not push the issue.

sorry if i sound harsh...butif u want to take the train...u should be taking the train

moh may want the limo,but she should be doing what u want

if i was in a bp and the bride wanted to go to the city on horseback d saddle up....i would try to make the bride as ahppy as i could..ts her night,not mine

jmo...hope u feel better