B-Pics - To Take or Not to Take....

I definately would like to, but I NEED to loose a bunch more weight first.

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Posted by Espo22

whoever voted for 'they feel self conscious' STOP feeling that way...Theres nothing your FH will see in those pics that he doesn't see in person. You dont hide from him in person so why feel this way. He loves you and you should feel confident in that love he has for you

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I did, but only because it made more sense to me because I am definately going to do it...just after I loose the weight I wasnt to loose before the wedding. But thanks for the 'uplifting'

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Posted by Espo22

i want to do them but after the wedding

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Me too

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Posted by Espo22

whoever voted for 'they feel self conscious' STOP feeling that way...Theres nothing your FH will see in those pics that he doesn't see in person. You dont hide from him in person so why feel this way. He loves you and you should feel confident in that love he has for you

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that's exactly how i feel too. i actually still am quite self conscious about my body, but that didn't stop me from having them done, and having a total blast doing them. i def went a step beyond by posting my pics on a public forum, but i'm very happy with how they came out. also, i am not a skinny girl, and i wanted to show that us non-skinny girls are just as beautiful! it totally is a confidence booster. and when you have a photographer whose done this for years, she makes sure you're completely at ease. you show more when you're at the beach. the only people who will be seeing them are you and FH, and the photog who's taking them. i did not expect to feel as great as i did taking them, but it was truly one of the best experiences i've had, and if i had the $$, i'd do it all over again.

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Posted by teenigrrl

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Posted by Espo22

whoever voted for 'they feel self conscious' STOP feeling that way...Theres nothing your FH will see in those pics that he doesn't see in person. You dont hide from him in person so why feel this way. He loves you and you should feel confident in that love he has for you

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that's exactly how i feel too. i actually still am quite self conscious about my body, but that didn't stop me from having them done, and having a total blast doing them. i def went a step beyond by posting my pics on a public forum, but i'm very happy with how they came out. also, i am not a skinny girl, and i wanted to show that us non-skinny girls are just as beautiful! it totally is a confidence booster. and when you have a photographer whose done this for years, she makes sure you're completely at ease. you show more when you're at the beach. the only people who will be seeing them are you and FH, and the photog who's taking them. i did not expect to feel as great as i did taking them, but it was truly one of the best experiences i've had, and if i had the $$, i'd do it all over again.

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Amen! I'm no paperweight, and I'm proud of mine!

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Posted by teenigrrl

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Posted by Espo22

whoever voted for 'they feel self conscious' STOP feeling that way...Theres nothing your FH will see in those pics that he doesn't see in person. You dont hide from him in person so why feel this way. He loves you and you should feel confident in that love he has for you

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that's exactly how i feel too. i actually still am quite self conscious about my body, but that didn't stop me from having them done, and having a total blast doing them. i def went a step beyond by posting my pics on a public forum, but i'm very happy with how they came out. also, i am not a skinny girl, and i wanted to show that us non-skinny girls are just as beautiful! it totally is a confidence booster. and when you have a photographer whose done this for years, she makes sure you're completely at ease. you show more when you're at the beach. the only people who will be seeing them are you and FH, and the photog who's taking them. i did not expect to feel as great as i did taking them, but it was truly one of the best experiences i've had, and if i had the $$, i'd do it all over again.

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youre crazy, you looked amazing so no need to be self-conscious even in person.

I showed FH alot of b-pics that girls have taken and his favorite was a thicker girl. Even on Americas next top model we were watching it recently and he thought one of the girls that they categorize as a plus size model is the one he thought was the hottest. I also know hes not the only guy to feel that way. Im sure your fh will tell you that your body is his ideal body and many many guys feel the exact same way.

and good for you for doing this and showing people that you had the confidence to do so. You dont realize but you probably have inspired other girls and helped them about how they feel

I'm pretty sure I'm going to get them done. I'm back into gym mode and am actually getting a trainer next month, so I should be good to go I'm going to see if Creative Photography is having a marathon session in the summer, if not, i'll go with Fedali. Cant really afford the others.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by teenigrrl

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Posted by Espo22

whoever voted for 'they feel self conscious' STOP feeling that way...Theres nothing your FH will see in those pics that he doesn't see in person. You dont hide from him in person so why feel this way. He loves you and you should feel confident in that love he has for you

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that's exactly how i feel too. i actually still am quite self conscious about my body, but that didn't stop me from having them done, and having a total blast doing them. i def went a step beyond by posting my pics on a public forum, but i'm very happy with how they came out. also, i am not a skinny girl, and i wanted to show that us non-skinny girls are just as beautiful! it totally is a confidence booster. and when you have a photographer whose done this for years, she makes sure you're completely at ease. you show more when you're at the beach. the only people who will be seeing them are you and FH, and the photog who's taking them. i did not expect to feel as great as i did taking them, but it was truly one of the best experiences i've had, and if i had the $$, i'd do it all over again.

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youre crazy, you looked amazing so no need to be self-conscious even in person.

I showed FH alot of b-pics that girls have taken and his favorite was a thicker girl. Even on Americas next top model we were watching it recently and he thought one of the girls that they categorize as a plus size model is the one he thought was the hottest. I also know hes not the only guy to feel that way. Im sure your fh will tell you that your body is his ideal body and many many guys feel the exact same way.

and good for you for doing this and showing people that you had the confidence to do so. You dont realize but you probably have inspired other girls and helped them about how they feel

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aw, thank you so much. as FH loves to say to me, 'I like 'em thick!'

and if i can be an inspiration, or any of us girls who've taken them and posted them, can be, that's a great thing!!