Babies

We are going to enjoy married life for a year. And then start on our basketball team.

Real soon! FH is pushing 40 and my clock is ticking in my ear everyday!!! He wants only one (for now) but I want more so the sooner the better

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Posted by MLAngelo

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Posted by vicky1125

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Posted by MLAngelo

I don't want to start trying until a year after the wedding, but I think thats all I am waiting and I might even try sooner, because I am really really concerned that I will have a lot of problems.

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aw, don't worry i'm sure it will be fine. FSIL had major problems getting prego and now they have a beautiful baby girl. if you want it bad enough, it will happen.

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Thanks, I'm a DES Grand-daughter and most DES daughters couldn't have children so miracles happen, I was one. But it took my mom 9 years to have child so I am kind of scared I am starting 8 years after her. Plus they are finding an increase in uterine cancer among the DES granddaughters so I want to have a kid before they have to do a hysterectomy.

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i'm really sorry. i really hope you get what you want. there are so many things available to doctors these days to try to speed up the process or having multiple births which is great cause they didn't have these things when our mothers were tryin to get prego. my mom had a problem getting prego with me and when she did had to be on bed rest cause it was high risk. with everything going on these days and knowing so many people that have a hard time, i myself get scared. my niece's mom tried many times cause one of her tubes is blocked and she had 2 miscarriages, one of them was my niece's twin. but in the end things always work out.

Thanks. I have been following DES my whole life and they thought the granddaughters were fine, its only recently they started discovering the problems with them, but were child bearing age now. But my mom had a miracle so hoping for one too. But thats why as much as I want to be married a year before trying, I might try sooner.

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Posted by geegee827

We're going for a honeymoon baby! We're both older than the average first time marrieds and we don't have much time!

We've already traveled and had our fun.....

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Im with you on this....Im older than FH and I don't have the time to wait otherwise my window may close....

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Posted by MLAngelo

Thanks. I have been following DES my whole life and they thought the granddaughters were fine, its only recently they started discovering the problems with them, but were child bearing age now. But my mom had a miracle so hoping for one too. But thats why as much as I want to be married a year before trying, I might try sooner.

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I'm a DES granddaughter too. The medical advances are amazing now and even with endometriosis and poly cystic ovaries, I am preggo with my third after being told I could concieve when I was only 17.

The most important thing is to always have second opinions and always find the best doctor for your circumstances! Someones else's ob/gyn, just because its good for them, doesn't mean that dr. is good for you! I've been to Drs all over before finding the perfect one. And I still get second opinions if I feel it necessary.

I wish everyone the best of luck!

we have nothing set... but after we are married we will stop using protection. When god wills it after that, so be it :)

we already have one, she'll be 5 next August...she wasnt planned but wasnt prevented either lol....so i guess you could say eventually we knew we would end up preggers....the next one iam hoping to have around 28, 29....Our daughter will be 7, 8 by then, i think its a good age...because i want to be done with kids by 30, getting my tubes tied after the 2nd one.

FH wants more then 2, but i only want 2

1 year after the wedding we are going to start and hope it works out w/o complications. i know so many girls that havent been able to conceive on their own.


so scary!

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Posted by vicky1125

we're going to wait 3-4 years before having kids. i still need to get my cpa and establish my career a lil more and FH is so not ready yet. we also want to have a house first and be settled in a lil bit before we have kids.

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Good luck with the CPA exam!!! It is such a huge accomplishment. I cried when I passed my last part. Such a relief!