at this point what does it matter. FH and I have been together 8 years. It wouldnt be how i planned it but thats life. So i would prob just work my *** off to get in shape for the wedding
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Posted by jgl
at this point what does it matter. FH and I have been together 8 years. It wouldnt be how i planned it but thats life. So i would prob just work my *** off to get in shape for the wedding
thank you...i totaly agree...but alot of others seem to have different opinions
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I would be very upset. knowing me i probably would not lose the weight from the pregnancy so i won't look as i would like in my dress. on top of that, i want to be married at least a year before i get pregnant, but you know sh+t happen so i would have to suck it up.
jgl
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ya its def a hard situation and no one can truly answer until they are in that situation
the only other option i would contemplate would be to bump up the wedding
BNBride60
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It would make no difference. FH and I love each other and were planning to get married anyway. We own our house and are stable enough. I'd do my best to lose the weight, and would try to stay in shape during the pregnancy.
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well it wasn't 2-4months before my wedding But I am getting married in april and I am 30weeks pregnant(almost 8months). Your getting married anyway so what does it matter just 2 celebrations instead of one. I can tell from experience a child is the most amazing thing ever. I had my first at 19 and i'll be having my 2nd right after I turn 24. Not how I planned or thought it would be but They are my lives and my sons will look so handsome at my wedding. My Fh has competition lol haha.
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if i were i wouldnt stop the planning..it would be an added joy!
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I agree with everyone - be happy, enjoy both experieces, and get in shape for the wedding.
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i would be ok with it, as everyone said we are getting married anyway. I would just try to be able to fit into my dream wedding dress!