Bachelor Parties

dgirl0114 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:23 PM

Bachelor Parties

Hi, guys,

Ok, time for honesty here-what really goes on at your typical bachelor party with strippers? What do they do to the groom-to-be?

FH doesn't want a bachelor party; he wants to do something co-ed. But his brothers are very persistent and although he says no, I think they're going to surprise him.

I trust him completely. It's alcohol that I don't trust (from experience) and the thought of him being drunk and having some girl with no clothes on all over him is making me ill. He's been to many bachelor parties over the years and I know he went to one where he got a lap dance (we weren't together) and even though no touching is usually allowed, this girl allowed it. I can only imagine what will happen if they know he's the one getting married.

Thanks for any input!!

TonyPam75 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:47 PM

Re: Bachelor Parties

i've been to a few bachelor parties. Like you said, not all girls touch but unfortunately some do. And especially for the right amount of money. BUT, if you completely trust your FH, then you shouldn't worry. Not even about the alcohol. He's going to marry you and i doubt he is going to risk ruining that special day. I preach this to my fiancee because she really doesnt trust my bachelor party which is not for another few months. lol All i'm doing is going out to eat and Atlantic City. If the love is truly there then, there shouldn't be any doubts or worries. ok ok you will have them once in a blue moon but it wont happen!!

yanks2007 Posted: Jul 18, 2007 10:56 PM

Re: Bachelor Parties

Personally, I don't like strippers touching me in any way. I have a pretty good idea where they have been and thats just about everywhere. Part of getting married is trusting your partner. Don't work yourself up over nothing, if he wanted to do something co-ed in the first place, then it appears to me he's not really into strippers either so show him you trust him, alcohol is never an excuse for anything except puking!!!