Bachelor Parties

Original post by jackieee

Jan 19, 2010 10:00 PM

What are your FHs doing for their bachelor party?

Do you mind if they go to a strip club? get lap dances? why or why not?

JayBee216 Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:03 AM

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I think they're doing Montreal? The best man has emailed me a little bit and said that it was a possibility.

I don't care if they go to strip clubs, but FH has mentioned before that he doesn't like going there but who knows what his GM will want to do!

flibbertigibbet Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:20 AM

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Nope, I'm with ya.

Don't get me wrong. I would trust FH not to do anything. It's more that I don't trust girls whose JOB it is to do what I consider inappropriate and who 'work' for tips.

I wish I was one of you who was completely okay with it... I just think it's gross. And if FH was one of those guys who was wanting to but being 'kept from' going... I wouldn't want to marry him.

MrsHandsome2Be Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:22 AM

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FH is going to Montreal... i don't care what he does.. because i'm going to VEGASSSSS wooooo LOL

stinenandy2010 Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:24 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

i think they are going to Vegas....i dont mind going to the strip club but i would not be happy if they had strippers back at the hotel. totally different imo.

this is exactly where i drew the line for DH. i told him i didn't have a problem with a strip club. but no stippers at the hotel. also, i'm a firm believer in the saying 'you are the company you keep', i knew all the guys going and they are all good men with wives and families. even after the bachelor/bachelorette parties, we spoke to each other about our fun nights and there were no problems. its all about trust.

brittndave Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:24 AM

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Posted by Jna2010

i think he's going to PR... he can look but cant touch lol, i dont care if he spend the entire time at a strip club getting lap dances lol as long as he doesnt cross that line im a happy camper

i agree. i dunno what my fh is doing yet

Lisalana Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:28 AM

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FH is going to New Orleans. I'm sure they'll either go to a strip club or have a stripper, but that doesn't bother me at all. I kind of view the bachelor party as a rite of passage, like a last hurrah of sorts.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:54 AM

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FH says he doesn't want one

I am sure his friends will do the typical limo, bar, strip club deal

Oh, he also mentioned doing the Nascar Racing thing in the Poconos.

FutureCap Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:57 AM

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FH already went on his... they went to vegas in December to see 2 dave matthews shows ( i am still SUPER JEALOUS of this!), gamble, party, etc. He had the most amazing time!. I didn't care about them goint to strip club, they went, it was actually a funny story. Strip clubs don't bother me!I didn't like the idea of a vegas stripper going to their hotel room... but neither did he.

jackieee Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:59 AM

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Posted by weddingbees

Nope, I'm with ya.

Don't get me wrong. I would trust FH not to do anything. It's more that I don't trust girls whose JOB it is to do what I consider inappropriate and who 'work' for tips.

I wish I was one of you who was completely okay with it... I just think it's gross. And if FH was one of those guys who was wanting to but being 'kept from' going... I wouldn't want to marry him.

Yeah, I trust FH 100%. I know nothing would go down, it just grosses me. I've seen it first hand, and have heard the stories about back rooms, and I think it's nasty. I'm lucky he feels the same. :) No fights then!

halfbaked Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:06 AM

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They're going to Vegas this weekend. I really couldn't care less where they go. I trust FH 110%. Hell, I've even been to strip clubs with him and his brother. They bought me a lap dance.

ETA: The thing FH is MOST excited about is the WWII shooting range in Vegas (he's a history nerd in the extreme and a huge COD fan) and the Denny's across the street from his hotel.

2010bride2010 Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:07 AM

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FH is probably doing something outdoors!

mzmahagony Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:11 AM

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I'm not sure what he's doing but I dont mind. If he goes to a strip club and get dances or have strippers come to him it wouldn't bother me. I have been to strip clubs and been at many parties that had strippers and i danced with them and enjoyed myself as well so I could care less. We trust eachother so it's no biggie to me.

mzmahagony Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:13 AM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I think he's going to dinner and then a strip club.

I'm pretty sure he'll be getting lap dances. If he doesn't, I'd feel bad. It's his freakin' bachelor party, he should get some lap dances!

I don't have an issue with it. It's just a party, and let's get real here, just because a woman takes off her clothes for a living doesn't mean she wants to bang every guy that walks through the club's doors.

ITA!

MikesBride2B Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:15 AM

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No idea what they are doing and I really don't care as long as nobody is fcuking a stripper...if they want to see titties and have lap dances I couldn't care less. There's no way in he ll that FH would ever even consider cheating on me, its not his way...at the end FH is coming back to me so it doesn't matter what he does that night

Honestly I'll probably push his GM to bring him to a strip club haha...why not??

laulac98 Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:16 AM

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Posted by Sandradv121

We are have a bachelor/bachelorette party. Its more fun for us if we did it that way...we share a lot of the same friends, and we have the best time as a group.

We're doing the same - getting a party bus and taking everyone to AC. We figure we'll hang out and do dinner before and then go our separate ways.