My FH's bachelor party is this weekend. Did ur FH invite ALL ur side to it, like brothers, fathers, etc?? Or will they for those getting married later this year?
ChristineNorah
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My FH has not had his bachelor party yet but no he does not plan on inviting any of my family. My best friend (male) and two of my (male) cousins will be invited but that is because they are his groomsmen.
gicrespo
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mine isnt having one which is great bc his friends are crazy!
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mine is inviting his groomsmen, which includes both of my brothers. One lives in NC so he definitely isnt going but my other one might. There are still working out the details of the party. He is also inviting his close friends and cousins who arent in the wedding party. Who knows if they will all go but we he is extending the invite. Its completely up to him who he wants to invite. HTH!
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It helps....ur right when u said he invites whoever HE wants to. I was stressing bc my brother is 13 yrs older than me, not a big drinker, and hasn't had a good year. fH is going with some friends into the city starting at a sports bar for 3 hrs, all they can drink for 50 bucks......then who knows lol.....but, he didn't invite my brother and my sis in law asked me why he wasnt invited. I had valid reasons and she sai he wouldn't of gone,,,,,,so why is she stressing me out then ( I wanted to say that) I can't worry about everyone else!!
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FH is inviting my brother father and cousin (they are both in the wedding party, so its only right)
Bride in 2012
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FH is going to Vegas for his Bach party - he invited my brother & cousin but my father and his will be staying at home lol
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I don't have any brothers for him to invite but he did invite my best friend, that's like a brother. He is also a groomsmen though. He didn't invite his father or my father to the bachelor party and I am fine with that!
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LOL my FH has his this weekend as well, and what he did was a great idea.... Last weekend while i had mine, he went out to Yonkers casino and dinner w my Father and my brother in law (this way he did something with them)
This weekend he is going out w his guy friends and who knows what they have planned..
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It helps....ur right when u said he invites whoever HE wants to. I was stressing bc my brother is 13 yrs older than me, not a big drinker, and hasn't had a good year. fH is going with some friends into the city starting at a sports bar for 3 hrs, all they can drink for 50 bucks......then who knows lol.....but, he didn't invite my brother and my sis in law asked me why he wasnt invited. I had valid reasons and she sai he wouldn't of gone,,,,,,so why is she stressing me out then ( I wanted to say that) I can't worry about everyone else!!
my only suggestion then would be to ask him anyway, even if he won't go, the offer is still nice. Unless, there is a chance that he might say yes and FH wouldn't want him there. lol. This way he feels included, but he himself chose not to go. Just a thought!
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Just GM and some friends.
KDNY133
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FH is getting a lap dance from me We are not doing the party...we are a bit older and are eliminating all the hoopla...10 years ago it would have been a different story
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FH is getting a lap dance from me We are not doing the party...we are a bit older and are eliminating all the hoopla...10 years ago it would have been a different story
They rented out an area in a sports bar to watch the Final Four basketball games.....hmmmmm. Btw....FH and I are getting up there in age too ha
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It helps....ur right when u said he invites whoever HE wants to. I was stressing bc my brother is 13 yrs older than me, not a big drinker, and hasn't had a good year. fH is going with some friends into the city starting at a sports bar for 3 hrs, all they can drink for 50 bucks......then who knows lol.....but, he didn't invite my brother and my sis in law asked me why he wasnt invited. I had valid reasons and she sai he wouldn't of gone,,,,,,so why is she stressing me out then ( I wanted to say that) I can't worry about everyone else!!
my only suggestion then would be to ask him anyway, even if he won't go, the offer is still nice. Unless, there is a chance that he might say yes and FH wouldn't want him there. lol. This way he feels included, but he himself chose not to go. Just a thought!
Thanks! We did ask him today, and he thanked us for offer, but declined
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FH is getting a lap dance from me We are not doing the party...we are a bit older and are eliminating all the hoopla...10 years ago it would have been a different story
They rented out an area in a sports bar to watch the Final Four basketball games.....hmmmmm. Btw....FH and I are getting up there in age too ha
Hahaha that would be right up our alley...great idea
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It helps....ur right when u said he invites whoever HE wants to. I was stressing bc my brother is 13 yrs older than me, not a big drinker, and hasn't had a good year. fH is going with some friends into the city starting at a sports bar for 3 hrs, all they can drink for 50 bucks......then who knows lol.....but, he didn't invite my brother and my sis in law asked me why he wasnt invited. I had valid reasons and she sai he wouldn't of gone,,,,,,so why is she stressing me out then ( I wanted to say that) I can't worry about everyone else!!
my only suggestion then would be to ask him anyway, even if he won't go, the offer is still nice. Unless, there is a chance that he might say yes and FH wouldn't want him there. lol. This way he feels included, but he himself chose not to go. Just a thought!
Thanks! We did ask him today, and he thanked us for offer, but declined
thats great! and now you dont have to hear it from your FSIL lol