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Bachelor party day of my shower

CantWait2Wed Posted:

Bachelor party day of my shower

My FH said today that his best man wants to have the bachelor party the same weekend as my shower. So FH will be in Vermont. Should this matter?

IrishAli Posted:

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I think that's ok!

FH will be in Ithaca for my DC shower- and his FSIL might be in labor as well!
mrsg2be11 Posted:

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I guess technically no. But I've kind of always envisioned FH dropping me off at my shower, and the picking me up to get all the great stuff that we just got!

kimmaymb20 Posted:

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usually its FH that takes you to the shower and comes back to help load the gifts

fdnybride163 Posted:

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eh i dont think it would bother me that much cause its not like he is going to be at the shower with you, and almost every shower i have been to all the girls usully end up hanging out with each other anway. why dont you see if you vcan do your bach party that night as well and kill two birds with one stone

CantWait2Wed Posted:

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Posted by mrsg2be11

I guess technically no. But I've kind of always envisioned FH dropping me off at my shower, and the picking me up to get all the great stuff that we just got!



Me too. I just feel bad about saying no if this is the best time for his friends to get together
CantWait2Wed Posted:

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Posted by fdnybride163

eh i dont think it would bother me that much cause its not like he is going to be at the shower with you, and almost every shower i have been to all the girls usully end up hanging out with each other anway. why dont you see if you vcan do your bach party that night as well and kill two birds with one stone



True! I figured he would maybe show up and wave at everyone and eat cake or something at the end. I can't do my party that night because we are going away for it.
Yankeeelove Posted:

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I feel like I want FH to bring me to my shower and walk in with me, and come back at the end. So it would bother me a little

FutureMrsRP Posted:

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I went to a shower this summer for a friend and her FH was away on his bachelor party. He actually pre-recorded a video for her, and it was played at the shower. I thought that was really cute. She didn't seem to mind at all that he wasn't there. She was so caught up in the excitement

sandybeaches115 Posted:

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I think it's ok if he's not there as long as you don't mind! I mean the shower is really for women only...with that said, i did have FH pick me up a bit early from the shower and introduced him to lots of the ladies that had yet to meet him.

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