Bachelor Party Q

Any girls reaaaaaaally not down with having their FH doing the whole strip club/ lap dancing / etc thing??

It's not so much my FH that is down for that stuff, its the RIF RAF that he will be with that I think will instigate things .....

arghhhhhhhhh..

.I read posts about some girls saying they don't care, they trust their FH, its just silly, etc. etc. and I reaaaaaaaaally wish with every ounce of myself that I could honestly feel that way, then I would be fine but there has been recent talk of bachelor plans and I already feel my blood pressure rise...

ugh...Am i the only one????

I don't think you're the only one. But I know that my FH's friends aren't necessarily all as dignified as FH and he doesn't bow to peer pressure easily, so I don't worry. He doesn't want to have anything like that for his BP, but if he did it'd be ok by me cause I know how he'll behave himself.

Have a little faith in FH. And if that's the kind of party he wants, well... it's one night. Let him have one night.

No! I was right there with you. My FH had his bach party this weekend in New Orleans and honestly I don't even want to know what happened. I was so annoyed with talk of strip clubs and we even got into a bit of an argument over it. Now I kinda feel bad because it is his weekend with his friends.

You are def. not alone but sooo not worth the fight.

but i did tell his friends NO strippers in the hotel room

I'm not against strip clubs per se, and I know he went to two on his bachelor party. I am more uncomfortable with the 'back room' things that go on. But we had a talk before we went and I told him how I felt and I trust that he listened.
Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel

Nope, I totally care. The thought actually turns my stomach. I hope hopinh he just has a boys day ...baseball game and bar stuff. His GM's/brothers are in their 40's and all have families and have pretty much settled down. Hopefully we wont have to fight over this!

I'm with you though!

I am in the same boat as you girls. I completely trust my FH but the thought of strippers touching him and stuff makes me SICK! I feel bad because I don't want to ruin his weekend

I just keep telling him that his party is one night and out relationship is forever :)

I am going to have to have alot of wine the night of his party!

FH already told me that he did not want to do the whole strip club thing and then I talk to one of his friends and he said that FH is telling me the truth when he tells me he is not going to a strip club but FH and I should really know better because the guys are dragging him to one.

So, whatever I guess.

So, does this mean I can go to strip club in Vegas?

My only saving grace at this point is his BP is going to be before my BP...so I warned him tthat his actions that night will gauge how I will celebrate at my BP.... I am soooooooooo bluffing... and he knows it

haha.. FH is on his way home from his party right now and went to a strip club on Thursday. Honestly, he's never been to one so I couldn't really say no. Part of me doesn't mind but then another part of me gets absolutely DISGUSTED knowing that he's giving a girl money so that she'll rub her sh*t up on him.

I HAAATE the idea of FH going to a strip club-he's been but he says he was never really into them. He told me that he told his friends he doesn't want to go to a strip club for his bachelor party- hopefully they will respect his wishes. (and hopefully my cousin goes to FH's bachelor party so FH will feel weird looking at strippers w/ my cousin there lol).

FH is at his friends bachelor party in New Orleans this weekend and he said that some of the other guys went last night but he didn't. Unfortunately today FH was drinking all day (he was hammered by 5pm when I spoke to him). Hopefully he won't get dragged to one.

Last night I was out with my friends and somehow got dragged to a strip club on the way home (my friends cousin gave us a ride home decided he wanted to stop at one-WEIRDDD!!). One of the strippers was trying to take my hand so I could touch her and she came over and started kissing my neck. I was like 'Umm I'll give u $$$ if u stop-I'm not into girls'... My friends thought it was funny and when I told FH he got a kick out of it, but all I keep thinking is that I would HAAAAATE it if some stripper was doing the same thing to him.

I don't care at all! He and his friends aren't typically into that, but its a bach party in vegas! They better get lap dances!! And I would pay to be a fly on the wall!!

Ur not the only one that feels that way. I have gfs that aren't into it..

I didn't care at all...I told him whatever he did was his business but that when he got home he was to take off his clothes, put them in the laundry and jump in the shower before even touching me.

He was too tired so he slept on the couch until he had the strength to shower haha

i dont like strip clubs...not so much strip clubs, but lap dances...i just feel like it's a double standard...if i did that to another guy, my fiance would be insanely pissed off! so it's def a double standard...ive been too one and it's just raunchy and way too much touching imo.

it's a personal belief and your views need to be understood and respected.

now, i wouldnt tell me fh he couldnt go to a strip club, because that's not right...this has caused fights with exes in the past.

luckily, my fh hates strip clubs. he DJed at one for YEARS, so he's just done with it and thinks it's a waste. he told his bridal party he would walk out if they took him to one. hahahha i was soooo happy to hear that....if he was into it, i woulda ****** it up for the night,..but he knows my opinion on lap dances and respects it. luckily, we are on the same page.

fh will be in vegas for 4 days......

thurs evening to mon morning

i dont even want to think abt what he will be doing... i trust him 100% but i know there will be a visit or 2 or 3 to a strip club

I dont know what they did... but im sure there were half naked women involved... i kissed a sailor on the cheek at my bparty... what are you gonna do... he was texting me the entire time he was down there...

I think FH is more concerned about me goin to one cause thats all I asked for, lol!!!!!! I have a weird obsession with it but in a funny way not by any means sexual!!!its just a good time with the girls I dont care about FH goin to one he really isnt into it anyways but if he was then its all in good fun