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Bachelor party question

bayla Posted:

Bachelor party question

Should my FI invite my 2 step-brothers to the Bach party? They are both going to hold the chupah in the wedding but they aren't that close to FI or really me. When we see them we all have a great time, we just dont really hang out other then holidays. So i am not sure if he should invite them. I already know that one can't go (his wife wont let him-yet she's coming to my bach.party-figure that out) and the other one would prob go if invited, however hes single and pretty wild (like has threesomes and all that stuff and is proud of it) So i dont know if i feel comfortable with him going. Any ideas?

evnme Posted:

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my brother wasnt invited to fh's bp and he is a gm.
he and fh arent close at all.
chander618 Posted:

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Personally I feel if they're in the wedding they should go to the bachelor party.

BHW Posted:

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I don't see the harm in inviting them. DH invited my brother, but he wasn't able to go.

October Bliss Posted:

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My FH is inviting both my brothers to his b-party, only one of them has a 'role' in the wedding. I would say that since both yours do, they should be extended an invite.

7706bride Posted:

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Posted by chander618

Personally I feel if they're in the wedding they should go to the bachelor party.



i agree
bayla Posted:

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i know what you guys are saying, i guess i just dont know b/c they arent really close to FI (one made a comment he didnt think he was b/c he hasn't heard anything) and the other one already def wont be coming (b/c his wife said no), Plus FH and I have different opinions if they 'are in the bridal party' since they are just holding the chuppah (i say they are, he says no), we are not inviting my other two chuppah holders who are my cousins and who FI knows better b/c one is only 19 and the other is 21, but i feel bad inviting the one who is legal, since his bro can't go (they are very close) and the Bach party is in AC

ellebelle1 Posted:

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iF you are close with your step-brothers, or would like them to be, then invite them.

waterspout4 Posted:

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My brothers weren't invited to the bachelor party, even though they were GM. The 2 don't necessarily go hand in hand

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