ok so i know it is very early for this but i just needed to vent about it, haha.. so i am hearing the guys want to take FH to vegas for the weekend when it is time to do the bachelor party.. now mind you the 2 best men are one of his brothers and my brother, so i like want to kill my brother for this idea, lol.. but what am i gonna do?? its his one night to celebrate and enjoy it with his guys.. i just dont like this vegas thing cause you know what they say about vegas, lol!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhh not very happy about it, but i cant do anything about it i guess.. lolol i guess after hearing that i just might have to tell my girls to plan a vegas trip for us as well.. HAHAHA!!
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hahaha I was always against the whole airplane Bach parties (for guys and girls) to me its such an expense and then I feel like I wouldnt have been able to have everyone I wanted.....but in all honestly expense aside Vegas,AC,Mohegan they are all the same in that they have the same activites so dont stress it
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I understand your frustration. But let's try to put some perspective on this - if you can trust FH in NY or Atlantic City, then you should be able to trust him in LV. Right?
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yeah that is trueee!! :) hehe!!
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I have to be honest, this would drive me nuts too.... I trust my FH, I just dont trust slutty strippers lol I've heard way too many stories about what has happened in Vegas... I'm sorry- so I wouldnt be cool with that idea at all... Where are you and the ladies going for your bachelorette?? Is it going to be a weekend affair as well??
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I understand your frustration. But let's try to put some perspective on this - if you can trust FH in NY or Atlantic City, then you should be able to trust him in LV. Right?
Took the words right out of my mouth! And trust me.. the same sripper slutty girls are everywhere.. not just in Vegas.. :)
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Posted by QUIA
Posted by debzy
I understand your frustration. But let's try to put some perspective on this - if you can trust FH in NY or Atlantic City, then you should be able to trust him in LV. Right?
Took the words right out of my mouth! And trust me.. the same sripper slutty girls are everywhere.. not just in Vegas.. :)
Yea thats true... I was just thinking about one time a friend of mine told me the groom actually had sex with the girl b/c all of the boys were around... and it was like the thing to do.... gross right?
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Posted by debzy
I understand your frustration. But let's try to put some perspective on this - if you can trust FH in NY or Atlantic City, then you should be able to trust him in LV. Right?
Took the words right out of my mouth! And trust me.. the same sripper slutty girls are everywhere.. not just in Vegas.. :)
Yea thats true... I was just thinking about one time a friend of mine told me the groom actually had sex with the girl b/c all of the boys were around... and it was like the thing to do.... gross right?
A nasty man will be a nasty man... Im sure he wasent the one to trust and Im sure his wife didnt..even if it wasent obvious.. but a man or woman will do what they want... and it always comes out soomer or later.. I rather find out bec of the bachlor than before I walk the isle... and for a man to wait to that night to do that is crazy..
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I have to be honest, this would drive me nuts too.... I trust my FH, I just dont trust slutty strippers lol I've heard way too many stories about what has happened in Vegas... I'm sorry- so I wouldnt be cool with that idea at all... Where are you and the ladies going for your bachelorette?? Is it going to be a weekend affair as well??
i agree. that wouldnt sit well with me. i dont care too much for the whole bachelor/bachelorette party....FH and I decided to skip them to save us the frustrations, stress and money
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I don't think the whole Vegas trip would bother me if I didn't think they were gonna have strippers. Gambling and going out (provided your groom is trust-worthy) would be fine w/me no matter where it took place, but I consider the whole stripper experience to be cheating. IMO - If you wouldn't condone a woman putting her boobs and hoo-ha in your man's face when she's not being paid for it, it shouldn't be acceptable just b/c she's receiving a $20 bill for it, lol. I mean why does the exchange of money make a FH motor-boating some woman suddenly 'acceptable', hahaha. I hope my directness is not misconstrued as offensive. But you're asking a question that I think deserves a direct answer. If he's not doing anything in Vegas that you wouldn't approve of if he did it here in NY, then you should be fine with the trip. And if he is doing things there that you're not okay with than that's what you should discuss with him. I hope that helps!
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We're doing a joint thing in Vegas.. we're gonna do some things together and for others the girls and guys will split. I wouldn't worry.. there is nothing in Vegas they couldn't find here if they wanted it..........
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Dh went to vegas and i had no problem with it. Infact all his friends had said they want to do vegas, and then his brother talked to me about the bachelor party and said AC, i told his brother than no Dh wants vegas and all his friends really want it too. I knew how much he wanted to go to vegas, he loves vegas and has been there many times so i wanted him to go. I also went to vegas for my own bachelorette party.
And yeah strippers are in NY, AC or Vegas. The ones in AC are even worse to tell you the truth. Alot more grimey than the vegas ones.
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i dont see any problem with the vegas bachellor party.. What can he do in vegas that he cant do in ny or ac, Its just another guys nite out as i see it.. My fh is goin to vegas for bachellor party, he goes about 4 times a year. Besides im goin there too... u guys are gettin married u should have trust in him in any situation... thats just my take on it
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dh is going to vegas with the boys and i am going to AC with my girls. i have no problem with dh going to vegas......i encouraged it.
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The ones in AC are even worse to tell you the truth. Alot more grimey than the vegas ones.
They are.. by far. I'm not a fan of any strippers, BUT.. If they stay on the strip and don't go looking into sleezy local places, it's more high end. Again, they're gonna find what they wanna find but I'm sure they'd rather a lil more class than grime. When we do Vegas the girls are def. gonna do Chippendales, but to be honest, I think the guys will be more into gambling and the drinks... Ya never know. Vegas does not = strippers.
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yeah i guess you are all right! honestly i just wanted some feedback and to kind of vent on this, lol.. not that i am completely dissapointed, cause i feel the same way that whatever they can do in vegas they can do in ny so it doesnt really matter. i just heard so many scary and crazy stories about vegas so when i heard they were going to plan a vegas trip i just couldnt help think the worst of it, lol.. but i trust him and i doubt he will be stupid to do anything stupid, considering my brother will be there and he knows better - haha j/k!! i also am not crazy about the whole strippers thing, but now a days honestly that is reality, all these boys hire strippers to the bachelor party and they think it is no bachelor party without some strippers, lol.. heyy im going to let him enjoy his night, it is his night as it will be mine.. i will not think the worst and doubt anything, because i do trust him and i dont think he will be stupid enough to even think of doing anything with strippers but getting his lap dance from them witch i am sure that is bound to happen if they have any strippers!!
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You should trust your FH especially since your own brother is going. I wouldnt worry about a thing if I had a brother who went with DH on his bachelor party! Secondly, what happens in Vegas could happen ANYWHERE ELSE when strippers are involved. My Dh went to AC and had nasty strippers. I was happy he had a good time.
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Strippers are disgusting and my FH agrees. If my Fh is going to think of another woman in a sexual way it better some stunning classy celebrity, not some nasty stripper.
I trust my FH 110% so he can go where ever he likes but strippers...no go on that.
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haha you are right about that! :) i liked that one!
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Posted by Nurse12985
Strippers are disgusting and my FH agrees. If my Fh is going to think of another woman in a sexual way it better some stunning classy celebrity, not some nasty stripper.
I trust my FH 110% so he can go where ever he likes but strippers...no go on that.
I agree! Personally, I am against strippers and FH has stated that he finds the idea pretty gross. One of his friends had strippers show up to a birthday party once, and FH and I left together. Anyway, there will be no strippers at his bachelor party. They will do a gambling night. His brothers are planning it and they are practically my brothers, so I trust them. I also do not want strippers and trust that my sister (my MOH) and my BM's will plan a clean girls' night.
