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bachelor party this weekend

gabbie83 Posted:

bachelor party this weekend

I dont know why but today i started getting all nervous.
Me and the girls are leaving for AC on Saturday morning & I think FH is going to the city to some strip club.
I trust him completely. But I just started feeling so nauseas thinking about it. (i dont know why)
I really have a wild imagination when it comes to these things and i know that if a guy wants he'll go and cheat on you anyday, he doesnt have to go out with his buddies to a strip club to do it.

i know like 1/2 the guys that are going. but i feel what if they're like öh this is your last night or some bull$h|t like that.....

im just worried, i know i shouldnt be.
i dont want to turn psycho this week!
someone help!!!!!!!
nicolejohn Posted:

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Aww don't feel nervous! Remember, (in most cases) FH made the decision he wanted to marry you, worked his butt off to buy a ring and gathered the guts to ask you to be his wife. After all that, why would he throw it away on some loser?!

Jenn04 Posted:

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Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by nicolejohn

Aww don't feel nervous! Remember, (in most cases) FH made the decision he wanted to marry you, worked his butt off to buy a ring and gathered the guts to ask you to be his wife. After all that, why would he throw it away on some loser?!




I KNOW!!!!!!!!1
THANKS :)
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????



We're staying at the borgata, getting massages, casino, and then going out to the club at the borgata


you?
snwb08 Posted:

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FH is going to vegas for his... i KNOW there will be strippers and strip clubs. I don't care, I trust him totally and he never even gets drunk or crazy ever; he keeps joking that he is hiring a prostitute for his friend.

don't worry. talk to him about it... i told fh i wasn't crazy about the idea that there would be strippers in their hotel room... so he said that's fine, we won't do that.

it's normal to be concerned. just don't be psycho. my friend told her now husband if he went to a strip club for his bparty she wouldn't marry him. A little too extreme, IMO
boky17 Posted:

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awwww, dont worry about it! Your FH loves you, and would not do anything that stupid! It's good that you will be at your bachelorette party the same time, so you are out having fun as well. You are going to have an awesome time in AC. I just had mine there. Don't worry about it!!
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by gabbie83


Posted by Jenn04

Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????



We're staying at the borgata, getting massages, casino, and then going out to the club at the borgata


you?



are you guys going to dinner their too? I'm going 5/17 - would love to hear about your weekend on Monday!!
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by boky17

awwww, dont worry about it! Your FH loves you, and would not do anything that stupid! It's good that you will be at your bachelorette party the same time, so you are out having fun as well. You are going to have an awesome time in AC. I just had mine there. Don't worry about it!!



i know thats why i said plan yours the same weekend LOL


Thanks:)
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by gabbie83


Posted by Jenn04

Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????



We're staying at the borgata, getting massages, casino, and then going out to the club at the borgata


you?



are you guys going to dinner their too? I'm going 5/17 - would love to hear about your weekend on Monday!!



I think - they have a great steakhouse - but the only thing we're debating on is you know when you eat a good big dinner, the last thing you wanna do is go party.... so tahts why we might just go to the thai place
:)
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

FH is going to vegas for his... i KNOW there will be strippers and strip clubs. I don't care, I trust him totally and he never even gets drunk or crazy ever; he keeps joking that he is hiring a prostitute for his friend.

don't worry. talk to him about it... i told fh i wasn't crazy about the idea that there would be strippers in their hotel room... so he said that's fine, we won't do that.

it's normal to be concerned. just don't be psycho. my friend told her now husband if he went to a strip club for his bparty she wouldn't marry him. A little too extreme, IMO



yeah that is a bit extreme (IMO as well)
Belongs2DanBuckley Posted:

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Its his bachelor party- set rules
If you trust him then don't stress....


Ours is this weekend too
Jenn04 Posted:

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Posted by gabbie83


Posted by Jenn04

Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????



We're staying at the borgata, getting massages, casino, and then going out to the club at the borgata


you?



WE ARE STAYING THERE TOO! We were going to do massages sunday but decided to skip that. So we are definitely going to the mixx that night and we got a table! We have a large group....14 people....I will be in a silver sequined dress....lets meet up for sure!!! HOW FUN! Also another LIW girl is going down to....bella08 maybe? I cannot remember her screen name!
sliwa2 Posted:

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I know what you mean and your not the only one with these kind of thoughts.

My fh is going to Mexico for 6 days with all his guys and that's not till Sept, and I already have had bad thoughts of it, but my girlfriends tell me that it doesn't make sense to drive myself nuts! Sometimes easier said then done.

We can't let it get to us. Just stay strong,and enjoy your weekend with the girls ;)
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04


Posted by gabbie83


Posted by Jenn04

Dont worry about it....altho I think it is normal to have these thoughts!

Also I am going to AC Sat too...what are your plans?????



We're staying at the borgata, getting massages, casino, and then going out to the club at the borgata


you?



WE ARE STAYING THERE TOO! We were going to do massages sunday but decided to skip that. So we are definitely going to the mixx that night and we got a table! We have a large group....14 people....I will be in a silver sequined dress....lets meet up for sure!!! HOW FUN! Also another LIW girl is going down to....bella08 maybe? I cannot remember her screen name!



Yay! There's 9 of us coming!!!
How exciting!!!!
Yeah def! I Dont have a dress yet but as soon as I have it ill let you know! lol
When are you guys going?
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by sliwa2

I know what you mean and your not the only one with these kind of thoughts.

My fh is going to Mexico for 6 days with all his guys and that's not till Sept, and I already have had bad thoughts of it, but my girlfriends tell me that it doesn't make sense to drive myself nuts! Sometimes easier said then done.

We can't let it get to us. Just stay strong,and enjoy your weekend with the girls ;)



what are you doing for your b-party?
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

Its his bachelor party- set rules
If you trust him then don't stress....


Ours is this weekend too



are there rules you can set?
like what?
rules are meant to be broken.
lol
Dee0522 Posted:

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I was the same way at first when FH told me his friends wanted to take him to Vegas... I was mostly nervous b/c I don't know his work friends at all and he always tells me stories about them that didn't help at all!! But I know FH, and I know what he would/wouldn't do, so I trusted him. The only rule I made was that he couldn't go in any 'back room' with the strippers!! He laughed at me and said OF COURSE NOT! Well, the weekend came and went and I was fine! I even had a girls' night that weekend so I wouldn't think about it and it really helped.

Espo22 Posted:

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dont worry and just focus on your BP and have fun. I know it can be a little hard, my fh is leaving this thursday to vegas for his

Jenn04 Posted:

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We are leaving Sat and will get there between 1and 3...hopefully earlier but it just depends how fast we can gather everyone!!!!

Yeah I just told you my dress so you can easily spot me! LOL!

What time are you going?

Also dont worry about FH...but like I said I the feeling. Ofcourse everyone trusts their FH but just think of it this way...would your FH ever get with a stripper? That is the last thing he would do!

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