ok so... i plan on going to newport ri with my girls...was telling fmil about it and she goes 'tell me the dates so i can take off'.....
i wasnt planning on inviting his famm.........
are you guys??
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His mom..no. I would invite his sis even though she is much older than me she is great.
I would tell her you were just planning on a last Hoorah with your girls, maybe she will get the hint
Colcas2011
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i kinda said... its just the girls.... and i will have a dinner nite out that she can go to. i felt bad... but its weird. i mean his mom is young... but its his mom!!! i sorta cant believe she said it
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Nop...
Sorry I dont think i am inviting my Mother nor my FMIL to my Bparty... I want to keep it between friends.... I think our Mothers are 'old fashion' lol.... i dont think they will b cool wiht me wearing alll BACHE:LORETTE PARTY STUFF!!!!!!!! Or riding the bull (i so want to ride the bull!!! lol i dunno where but i want to ride the bull!!!)
So no... only keep it friends......
BUT THE AGAIN, I DONT EVEN KNOW IF I WILL HAVE ONE....
(BUT I GOT TWO LITTLE BIRDS WHO TOLD ME I WILL HAVE ONEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE)
thefloreswedding
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YES!!! V!!
crashing...
one of my good friends had TWO bachelorett parties!! one that included older and younger ladies where she just had a passion party, drinks and games and the other one with only the young girls!! we dressed up, went out to the city in a limo and had alot of fun...she did this so that the other ladies wouldnt feel left out...
maybe you can do that? or something similar that is not too expensive!
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Helll NO!!!! I wouldn't invite my mom to mine. (as it is now) I would if it was a little less you but no need to have the moms at it!
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Nooooooo. I was going to originally, but now that my bachelorette party has changed, I'm not inviting her. She's a wet blanket anyway.
I'm inviting his sister since she is a BM.
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We are actually doing a separate 'old folks' bach party with my family. We'll be going to AC for the night for the spa/dinner/gambling. At the real bach party, the only family members that are invited are my 2 cousins, my SIL, and possibly one of my aunts, but definitely no mothers!
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No. Neither my mom or his mom are invited to the bachelorette party. The b-party is just my bridesmaids (my sisters and his sister) his cousins, my best friends.
That being said, I kind want to have a 'girls night' with the mother's and my sisters and his sister the week of the wedding. Just to chat, eat, etc. Maybe you can do something like that?
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uM NO!! Just FH's sister she is a BM!!
BlushandBashful
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whoops double post.
PhyllisNJoe
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I am.
Then again, both of our moms party more then I do!
We're going to An 80's club On the Friday night and AC on the Saturday - coming home Sunday. Figure either mom can just go up to the room if they are too tired to continue (Which again, I think I'll be the first to say I'm tired LoL) This way they don't miss out on anything and nobody feels left out. Nothing I can't do or say in front of either one of them so we won't feel like we have to behave lol
They are both very happy that they were included.
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yea thats strange?
normally its just the girls?
evita2781
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No FMIL. Just FSIL... i just think it would be weird to have his mom there..no offense to her but i'm gonna have fun and possibly go wild and i dont want her to see that
rosatemp
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not inviting the moms just the cousins and my sil and my friends and some of my girl cousins
cait625
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not my FMIL but my mom thinks she is coming...i keep telling her she isn't and she keeps saying she is
smilesjc81
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aww i feel your pain. my FSIL invited her mom and her FMIL to her bachelorette party.
I'm not inviting my mom, or my FMIL. It's girls only
I'm hoping she isn't expecting it, she is youngish and young...but still, this about me and my girls not about family lol
Colcas2011
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right... and i dont want to have to worry about what gets talked about etc.... i like his mom... but dont think she should be there. i think my mother would be offended if she was invited and my mom wasnt- and my mom is not coming! nor does she expect or want to!!!
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We are doing a weekend on Fire Island (I think! I should stop saying this but my girls are saying my wish is granted, lol) and I'm thinking I'll invite the moms for the day? We've rented a house on Fire Island for the last 2 years and my mom came for the day on a Saturday both times.
That being said....the moms are NOT invited for any shenanigans at night, and I know they don't want to come either. And if my b-party was just one night, like in AC or something, they wouldn't be invited.
So I totally agree with you...no moms! I plan on getting wild and I think that would be awkward
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Posted by chris1082
We are doing a weekend on Fire Island (I think! I should stop saying this but my girls are saying my wish is granted, lol) and I'm thinking I'll invite the moms for the day? We've rented a house on Fire Island for the last 2 years and my mom came for the day on a Saturday both times.
That being said....the moms are NOT invited for any shenanigans at night, and I know they don't want to come either. And if my b-party was just one night, like in AC or something, they wouldn't be invited.
So I totally agree with you...no moms! I plan on getting wild and I think that would be awkward
Well put.
But you won't feel bad having them there all day and then saying you gotta go so the girls can party? (obviously not in that way) I would feel bad to do that. I dunno, I guess I got lucky with my FMIL, she's a riot! and my mom - well let's just say... for her 71st birthday she got a tattoo on her chest!
