why is it that whenever a group of women of 3 or more get together theres drama???? all the girls but one have gotten along and paid their $$ for the hotel room (we're going to AC) except 1 and shes a BM. so the $ was due 7/1 so come this weekend i ask my moh how everything's going and shes like good i guess. i'm like whats that supposed to mean? shes like well everyone but this one girl (the BM) hasn't gotten us the $ or called us back. so i said let me talk to her. so i tried talking to her today and got nothing but attitude. her response was basically why are u getting involved and i said b/c ur not talking to them. blah blah blah then she exchanged some nasty emails w/another bm and shes not even saying wheather shes coming or not.
LB and DC
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i am so sorry you are dealing with this!! here are some
i think it was good of you to try and talk to your BM, but now you've done what you can do. you have to let it be at this point or you risk making things worse. i had a similar problem with one of my BMs (FSIL of course) and i actually told FH about it and HE said something (which turned into a huge fight, but eventually got resolved). the thing is, you will have to see her on your wedding day, so even if things get sour between her and the other BMs you don't want them to be bad between you two. JMO. i hope things work out!!!
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Could it possibly be a money issue and she's embarrassed and therefore is avoiding the problem instead of dealing with it? Money is such a sensitive topic, especially if the person doesn't have it.....is there anyone that she feels comfortable enough that if that's what it is, maybe they could spot her for the time being? Or, would you be upset if she decided to stay home if she can't afford it? I mean, it could be anything, I'm just trying to come up with possibilities and money is more often then not the source of problems.....
I hope everything works out.
dancerandchef
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I am so sorry to hear about that. I just had dealt with all the BP drama myself. It is now pretty much taken care of. My sister needs to learn how to communicate and let me know what is going on. Not flip out on her only sister. Money is such a touchy subject these days.
~dancer~ charlotte
tricia3381
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thanks for all the kind words girls. unfortunately i know $ is not the issue. my sister just called tell me that moh who is actually fsil sent an em to everyone bout payments hopefully it will get resolved soon. i think one of the main issues is she didn't get to have control over everything. my moh tried to include her as much as possible but she lives in PA.
lauramark
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sorry bout all the drama ! supposedly there was tons planning mine - check out your original ac post - i left you a mini review of ac -all i can say is that i am obsessed with teh borgata and the mixx
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Posted by lauramark
sorry bout all the drama ! supposedly there was tons planning mine - check out your original ac post - i left you a mini review of ac -all i can say is that i am obsessed with teh borgata and the mixx
