Bachelorette Party Ideas when one BM is < 21

bluegreen08 Posted: Oct 20, 2007 04:51 PM

Bachelorette Party Ideas when one BM is < 21

I asked my one female cousin to be a BM (she'll be 17) and the rest of my bridal party will be 21+

I know the bach party isn't really planned by me, but I was curious what other people did in this situation? I was thinking maybe we could do a spa-type thing that she could go to, and then I'll go out with my older friends? She'll still be a few months away from 18, so it's not like we could go somewhere 18+ ... she might have a fake ID but that's probably not a good idea

Suggestions? Some of my BMs were toying with going to AC for the weekend and I'd feel bad leaving her out from something that big, but if she came with us she couldn't go in the casinos or to bars with us. I know she'll understand because she's not 21, but I don't want to make her feel really left out.

Two Peas Posted: Oct 20, 2007 04:58 PM

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I just went to a bachelorette party for a close friend of mine and her bridal party threw a spa party during the day (at Pout Spa...which did a fabulous job, especially the mini-facial) and then we all went home, got ready and then met up for dinner and a sleep over where we played games...FM if you need more info. It really was a TON of fun and the bride loved it!

RKellner Posted: Oct 20, 2007 05:23 PM

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Im kind of in the same situation...
I will have 2 that will only be 18 and most places that are good are 21 and over...
I wanted strippers at first and was going to have private ones but Im thinking about just doing a spa thing as well...
Even though its not fully up to me... My MOH keeps asking me what I want and my mother is helping her out with it since she will be there....
And so I decided I think I want to get a hotel room for the night... Have a spa thing, dinner, comedy club, and psychic party type thing....
Im not sure... But something along those lines... Thought it would be cute and fun...

tinadansr Posted: Oct 20, 2007 05:45 PM

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awesome 80's PROM!

thelastresort Posted: Oct 20, 2007 07:24 PM

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I had the same problem. What we did was go on a one night cruise to nowhere on the Norwegian DAwn and it was the most fun ever! my cousin had a blast and there was no sweat off of our backs worrying about her.

bluegreen08 Posted: Oct 20, 2007 10:23 PM

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Posted by thelastresort

I had the same problem. What we did was go on a one night cruise to nowhere on the Norwegian DAwn and it was the most fun ever! my cousin had a blast and there was no sweat off of our backs worrying about her.

under 18 is OK for that?